posted on Jul, 30 2008 @ 09:56 PM
I moved from Kentucky to Sydney in July of 2001, and I feel my decision to do so was the best thing I could have done at the time. I was straight out
of college, met a girl online (who already had established a career here) who then I married, and well the rest is history.
The move had both good & bad aspects, as any major life decision would. I miss my family, my friends, and I sometimes think where I would be or what I
would be doing if I had not taken this path. The only deep regret I have is that I didn't spend more time with my Grandfather over the last 7 years
of his life.
The good aspects are very good indeed, and I wouldn't change a thing about life over here. The only complaint I have is that it's freakin' sunny
here every day. It might rain for 2 days and then be the same sunny weather for 2 months straight. Trust me, it sounds like I'm whining, but you
never know how much you love the rain & thunderstorms until they become a rarity. If you want blue skies, we have plenty here.
Having lived abroad now for some time, I've been able to view what the U.S. has been experiencing through very different eyes. I watched 9-11 on
Aussie TV. I travel a few times each year back to America, and I have experienced many of the new headaches and hassles of security, immigration, and
customs. Also given that my wife is of Arabic ethnicity, I have witnessed her being pulled aside all too often for 'random checks' and
'pat-downs.'
Bush has been an utter embarrassment, and nearly everyone I know here is embarrassed for him and for America. It's really gone down the tubes since I
left, and I sometimes feel a sense of dread re-entering the country. I think this is quite unfair to feel this way when coming home. Homecomings
should be happy, don't you think?
As for your deciding about whether to leave or stay, nothing I can say will (or should) affect your decision. Australia is a great place...a beautiful
place. But there is good and bad wherever you go.
I don't blame you for feeling this way, the world now makes you question your safety no matter where you are. Anytime I travel anywhere I try and
weigh my options and risks without blowing everything out of proportion.
Leave for the experience and the opportunity to look upon your home with a different point of view. It's kind of like going to the Moon and looking
back at Earth. You feel deep pride and sorrow simultaneously. There's a bigger picture to be seen of what's going on in the world, and you now have
that opportunity - take it.