posted on Jun, 13 2007 @ 05:56 PM
ok
usually I have nothing worthwhile to say so I never bother posting, I'm a reader. But I just can't bite my tongue anymore.
I am an Australian ICU RN, not a third world country, Australia for Gods sake.
One of Americas strongest allies.
I fell in love with, and married an American citizen so here I am.
I should be able to stay here and contribute to society right?
Afterall, we are allies and I am qualified to work in an industry that is begging for applicants in America??
I save lives, surely I this country wants to take advantage of that?
No, no, no silly girl.
First, I'm told my qualifications mean nothing. And I mean nothing.
Having spent $500 for evaluation of my four postgraduate certificates and my initial RN licence I have been told it's worthless. Why? because sadly
I was 'old school' trained in the real world of hospital training in the 90's.
Oh yes, soooooo long ago.
Ok, ok, suck it up, I can take it.
I tried to Volunteer after Hurricane Katrina, I was told I didn't qualify as a volunteer because I am 'trying' to gain green card status.
Ok, please explain.
Seems me volunteering with my qualifications could jeapordise the paying employment of an American citizen so that would qualify as a job even though
I wasn't being paid.
So.... you won't let me get a job.... you won't let me work for free...
shootin yourself in the foot there aren't ya?
This could and should be a win win situation.
I have a lot of valuable skills to contribute to this great land but sadly I don't fit into any of the boxes so I am tossed aside into the too
freakin hard basket.
My husband and I have endured great strain, financial and otherwise trying to do things the right way.
I have now been told that because of the time delay during paperwork filing and reviewing, I have overstayed my visa and do not qualify to apply for
status at this time.
What the hell does that mean??? (a bloody stroke for me at 36 I'm sure)
All I know is I'm doing things the so called right way and getting bent over the table while being thoroughly demoralised and robbed during the
process. The stress has been so bad I have had four teeth crumble and fall out. We can't afford a dentist and I don't believe in milking any system
so I look like a pirate. Small price to pay to be with the man I love.
Hey, I love America but not more than my now non existent self esteem. If I could persuade my husband to move to Australia we'd be sittin on the
beach right now.
But I can't. The things we do for love.
So, I will continue to wait my turn somewhere at the back, pay the huge fees and do things right while the ethnic individuals next door zoom past
flashing their money, food stamps, free dental and hospital.
Not a green card among 'em.
How's that you say?
Yeah, I'd like to know.
I have been to see immigration attorneys and university officals and everyone of them told me I was the wrong colour to qualify for assistance.
Disgraceful.
Seems if I'm from south of the border or from the middle east theres an express lane, a grey area, the allied countries are far, far at the back and
have to play by the rules.
Shafted?
Frustrated?
Iit really really pisses me off when I see others sliding on by blatantly flouting the rules and sucking the country dry when all I want to do is give
something and I'm not allowed.
If you hear anyone say there isn't room for immigration reform send them to me. Theres a hell of a lot of leeches that need to be purged, not all of
them foreign. All I want to do is give.
Where's the common sense gone???
I thought diversity was a key to a better society, but will there ever be a workable answer??
I don't think I'm the only one bending over the table these days..