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originally posted by: CynConcepts
I will admit I admit I am fearful for the future of my young grandsons. I always have been for self responsibility and would rather do it myself. Not feminist, but simply realized life sucks. Accepting my own responsibility in any relationship and will walk away and deal with life. Trust me it is tough.
it is frustrating listening to all the horror stories from my families male friends about females! not meaning to brag, but my husband does brag and his male friends and co workers seem to idolize me. It is actually embarrassing. Not just to me...but shamefully to all females. I don't really understand.
originally posted by: VashTheStampede
Society these days is so toxic if you don't fit the expectations.
I'm hoping one day I'll find a good woman to marry, I don't care about sex I want to find love.
Sex without love is garbage to me,yet society treats it like it is the most important damn thing, if people were actually willing to care for one another beyond superficial reasons then society as a whole would be much better.
The opposite sex isn't just for reliving your urges both men and woman need to understand this, society these days isn't toxic because of just men or just woman it is both of us.
I'm not even thirty yet and today's society has forced me to realize that I will probably be alone for the rest of my life.
There probably aren't even any good christian women left in my age group anyway who haven't given themselves over to temptation. I've been attacked before for being a virgin but I don't really care,life is more than sex people,far more important things like worshiping the creator who made all of creation and sending his son Jesus Christ so that we may be forgiven of our sins if we repent and have eternal life.
Many these days are giving into fornication and strange flesh while losing sight of things that truly matter.
I'm sure many will mock me for this post and I say among you ye who are without sin cast the first rock,for you all have faults just as I do, the difference is I acknowledge those faults and repent when I sin. No man is perfect nor is any woman, only a fool thinks they are free of any flaws or says there is no God.
I have stopped watching tv,movies, video games, and music,all that is produced these days is trash and further contributes to the degradation of our society not to mention all the hidden and blatant symbolism in those forms of media. Look at the lyrics they are all about worthless things, songs about "love" are really just about sex. The more I see things get worse the less I want anything to do with this so-called modern society,what is modern about downgrading standards and pollution of the mind?
Don't like what I have to say then don't read it,people these days only see and hear what they want to see and hear anyway,instead of facing the truth, because that is the easier thing to do. Convenience will be the downfall of the modern world,because of convenience we are forgetting how to pray, how to cook, how to hunt, how find food food ,how to work,how to think,how to build, how to interact and how to live.
How many of you would know what to do if you lost all modern conveniences over night?
originally posted by: SummerRain
Not sure if it has been pointed out, but MGTOW is NOT incel.
Involuntarily celibate does not equate to someone opting to live free as they wish, without women.
I should know, I'm like a supermodel, and ladies drop to their knees just seeing me, then turn into puddles of quivering ecstasy as I dab them up. Trust me, I'm prettier than the OP and I just say No.
originally posted by: dawnstar
a reply to: starviego
sexual revolution- ya is seems that for the most part, men had unhinged the sex from marriage and family... thus the demand for prostitutes..
the oldest profession for women.
feminism and stay at home mothers... contrary to what some want to portray the 50s and 60s as being, there were alot of working women back then... how else would you explain the fact that the majority of the elementary teachers back then were women.... mothers. One of the big employers in my town was a canning factory... outside of the summer jobs that they provided to kids, most of the lineworkers in the place were women, some quite old. the restaurant workers, the cashiers in store, the textile industries, many, many women. used to be, before industrialization, these women could earn their money working from home, ya know, cottage industries. what drove them out into the workforce wasn't feminism, it was the competition that industries utilizing automation introduced into their markets.
declining wages... loss of respect for men... umm... ya know how to lose the respect of your wife real fast...
act like the money she earns is yours to decide what to spend it on, come home tired every night knowing that she also worked hard for 8 hours and plop yourself in your favorite chair in front of the boob tube and have the first words that come out of your mouth to her be "what's for dinner" while the kids are scrambling under her feet all saying... "I'm hungry. I need help with my homework. I need a ride to.... Mom.... Stacy keeps bothering me!!!" and then... ask her to bring you your beer!!! if you are expecting her to pick up half of the responsibility of earning that living while doing very little to help pick up that other half of responsibility... ya know picking up the house, caring and tending for the kids, cooking, laundry, playing taxi driver, school meetings, ect... just how much respect are you showing her?
welfare.... it should have been a bit more generous, expanded it's outreach in an attempt to reach those who it was failing. instead if put families in a position where if they even wanted to keep up with the single parent welfare moms, ya know, have the kid's medical needs taken care of, have food for the kids, a roof over their head, all those things that are necessary.... kicking dad out of the house was a viable option. heck sometimes it was even suggested by social workers trying to come up with a way for a kid to get the healthcare they needed. and for the rest of my comment on this one I'll just go straight to you next one.
domestic violence laws.... add this to your comment about welfare... well have to ask, is it better to have women beaten and children abused or out on the streets with no safety net? sorry, sometimes the abuser has to be removed from the home!
subversive messages from the media.....
ya, try reading the old testament of the bible. the subversive messages trying to demonize women start in genesis and just flows on through it. but, there's alot of media out there at the moment, including this message board thread right here. I don't dial in the alex jones infowars show because I find it so irritatingly annoying... if I find ATS annoying, I just don't bother with it which is why toysforadults doesn't see my posts as often anymore. and, well, I have a few select shows I watch, not enough to even buy into cable tv really.. with all that is available, you can avoid those shows that bother you...
I believe that mandatory schooling has been around for quite awhile, at least through elementary school. you'd prefer we don't bother to make sure the kids are taught and raise up a bunch of illiterates? "take control of the male head of household..." too much control was claimed to begin with.... "and give it to the state"... what, you thought that they would allow the women to actually have some control?? the ERA should have been passed a long time ago. instead, they gave women a bone.... and the women, accepted it. it still ran on the supposition that women were weaker, less capable, and needed to be shielded in life, just couldn't handle life on their own. they gave them the illusion of freedom, an illusion of independence... but in reality is just shifted the lordship from husband to gov't. for any person to be truly free, truly independent, there has to be financial independence. the welfare program just made it easy for women not to find a path to that financial independence. it made it easier for the courts to justify laying the full burden of raising the kids onto the women with the agreement that the father would just give a small portion of his check to the gov't, which may or may not be given to the mother depending on how much gov't assistance is needed for her to maintain a household for the kids.
you sound like you want to go backwards, basing your reasoning on facts that aren't really factual in some cases, just when we are getting to the point where we just might have the ability to break free. a relationship that is based on controller and controlled, on providers and dependents, on needs and fears of those needs not being met, isn't freedom. dependency will always equal servitude, not just for the dependents but also for the lords.
originally posted by: Krazysh0t
a reply to: GuidedKill
Lol! This thread was made for r/ihavesex. Well that's as close as I can get to the narcissism since these people are also claiming to be avoiding women too...