7 and a half years then its all over ;(

a reply to: Cymru

I got creeperish and used your location to find those.

Floating is awesome imho you should give it a go.

a reply to: Lysergic

Google is your friend?

a reply to: Lysergic

Talking of creepy , I wonder if She's still checking this post .

a reply to: Cymru

Since you are checking my Angel , I love you .

a reply to: Cymru

Katrina , what is happening ? Why ? Thursday ?

a reply to: Cymru

Thanks Kat ,you just made me the happiest Man on Earth .

I'm excited to see what new memories we will create together .

I Love you xxx

a reply to: DD2029

This means more to the two of Us

www.youtube.com/watch?v=sP4o9veYykg

a reply to: Cymru

This means more to Us

Orca - 4am

www.youtube.com...

a reply to: Cymru

We are all sorry for your loss. Though you should move forward and to start just think about the negativity that she brought in to your life: she did not respect you enough, she did not dream about you, she betrayed you, used you.
As well change smth in your life: job, hobby, place.
Start seeing people (girls)

Wish you luck

a reply to: Judy21

Thank you for the kind words.
We have since talked at great length and sorted things out.

a reply to: Cymru

I'm in a similar situation and I don't know if I can fix it either, but I'll tell you what I did.

I asked to live together as friends(with benefits) instead, and I would be ok with her dating other people until she figures out what she wants. I don't know if it was the best idea, but I still have my foot in the door since she went for the idea. It's been hard as hell and I write this post as she is out on a date. It's the hardest thing I've ever had to do. She got jealous the one time I planned a date, and so I canceled it and we did other things instead.

Don't take this as advice, I am just trying to relate :/

I can see things appear to be working out for you. I am happy for you

a reply to: centrifugal

I cant imagine what that must feel like.
The one thing I have learned is that sometimes we have to take a look at ourselves from the outside.
I have no idea how you both ended up this way but its certainly no good for either of you.
I sat and thought long and hard about my situation then decided to take the reigns.
I'm not saying its easy but if the end result is worth the fight then go for it. Just be aware that the outcome may not be what you want but at least you'll know where you stand.
Solidarity Brother.

a reply to: Cymru

This is very sad, though this happens a lot
Try to talk and figure out the reason

We all lose someone. I think that you should be positive. Think about everything that she brought to your live, I mean all the good moment and be thankful for it. Set you mind free from negative thinking. That will help

a reply to: kellyshane

Further to previous replies, talking works.
We're back on form and better than ever.

a reply to: Cymru

I thought i will answer in your own thread.

All extreme emotions are indicators of an aspect of yourself you don't understand. The other person is never the cause.
It's like a wrong program whatever situation you feed it, it will never process it harmonically.
Give in to them, It might feel your going to die but it's just the wrong programming getting wiped.
After that the works starts. Because you can now write your own program.
But first analyze your past and focuse on all the situations related with relationship and break ups.
Forgive yourself for adapting the programs that had an disharmonious outcome, you didn't know better at the time. See if there are other ways to look at it and adapt them, trow them out if you see they don't help the next time you encounter the same situation.

They will probably come back until you have an harmonic program!

This is my take on it and since then all extrem feelings were leading me to profound healing. I don't categorize them in good and bad anymore, they are just trying to give me a lead and i embrace them with all that comes with it.

Sounds a bit sadistic but on the long run there is peace!

Sincerely No Clue

a reply to: NoClue

Thanks for the wise words.

Check your PMs .

Cheers.

a reply to: NoClue

Clicked on this thread cos I'm going through a similar thing, your post is very wise as Cymru said, thank you.

a reply to: athousandlives
And time does heal.
Getting there slowly.