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originally posted by: Anaana
Are you crazy or just rather shallow? Would you even be having these thoughts if you didn't find her attractive?
originally posted by: Anaana
a reply to: Profusion
What is "personality"? You think she may be incompetent, that she uses trickery to get others in to trouble...but what? She does it with a smile so that is okay? What's a nice personality if you scratch the surface and find character lacking? Shallow, that is what it is.
originally posted by: kibric
a reply to: Profusion
your not crazy
being crazy is hell
sanity is a gift most take for granted
When my colleagues make mistakes my first thought is that their intention must have been malicious
baggage
think back
someone hurt you
originally posted by: Profusion
I don't have a enough information to know if she was being malicious with me. My point is that I should give her the benefit of the doubt. Next time I see her I will do that.
If she wasn't attractive in terms both looks and personality, I probably wouldn't care about this situation much at all.
originally posted by: Anaana
originally posted by: Profusion
I don't have a enough information to know if she was being malicious with me. My point is that I should give her the benefit of the doubt. Next time I see her I will do that.
If she wasn't attractive in terms both looks and personality, I probably wouldn't care about this situation much at all.
Well, there you go. Perhaps you should be thinking more with your professional "persona" and taking things less personally in that environment? It is reasonable to feel insecure about establishing an intimate connection with someone, but you shouldn't be allowing that to bleed into how you allow yourself to be treated professionally, or indeed, you should be appraising your colleague on her professionalism, not on how she looks, or her personality for that matter even if your profession is sales, where superficial presentation is central and shallowness an art.
originally posted by: SaturnFX
assume not everyone is out to get you, if you honestly cant chat about something just say "yeah, cant talk about that" and go on a date with some boundries in place...stop being such a drama queen and simply have limits of some subjects...or not, not everyone has to breed and be happy and perhaps your gig is to be just that.
Lord knows that woman probably deserves someone who isn't insane from the get go...if you cant get over it and think you are the most special person in the world that everyone is trying to grift, then perhaps you are meant to be alone
originally posted by: Raggedyman
This may sound difficult and out there
Why not tell her what happened and find out why, just ask...
Crazy people generally make assumptions the worst about people and never find out the truth, live in there own crazy world
Well, fav saying on ATS. "Pics or it didn't happen." In this sense it would only be protecting ones self against any perceived future BS allegations.
originally posted by: savemebarry
originally posted by: weirdguy
a reply to: Profusion
just do her man. Be sure to take some compromising photos for any sort of counter blackmail that maybe required in the near future. I hope that helps
It makes you feel like the biggest POS on the planet, showing photos of that sort.
originally posted by: eletheia
a reply to: Profusion
Not to worry it pays to be cautious and not take things at face value ....
Look at what happened to the late author Helen Bailey murdered by her
fiance Ian Stewart!!
It is so easy to be naive and get taken ......
originally posted by: 4N0M4LY
a reply to: Profusion
What do ya know I am exactly just like you! I am not alone after all.
I trust no one and question everything. I remain suspicious of anyone's real intentions when I meet people. I am paranoid but it helps me stay on my toes.