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originally posted by: christophoros
a reply to: FlyingWhale
And that's where masculinity goes wrong men don't confront their issues they are taught to be strong.
originally posted by: christophoros
a reply to: mahatche
What does scratching your knee as a child and not being smothered have to do with deep seeded emotional issues or depression?
originally posted by: christophoros
Hey there is enough toughness in the male community. You know what there isn't? Responsibility,leadership,communication,empathy, and a whole bunch of other thing we are good in the tough department.
originally posted by: Bluesma
a reply to: ghostrager
I've noticed that it is not socially accepted to acknowledge sexism against males in the US culture.
I put up an article on Facebook the other day about the legal rights women have in the US, that men do not. Pure facts.
An uneasy "silence" came from my american family (usually all vocal about many social issues).
My kids "liked" it, and my french friends asked me , hey, were those true?
The men have rights here that they do not have in the US, so they had trouble believing it.
My kids weren't raised in the US, so they had no idea they were being "innppropriate" in even liking and commenting on it - I felt kinda bad about that - I knew I was risking disapproval with the family, they didn't. They didn't know these were facts that are not to be spoken of.
But I repeatedly find it funny how in a "Patriarchial" culture, it is socially unacceptable to support rights for men, and fashionable, and praised, to support women's rights (even to denigrate men).
Shouldn't it be the other way around, if this is a Patriarchy???
originally posted by: amazing
OP, you're half right. You made a good point that men are portrayed as stupid, fat and lazy in sitcoms and commercials. LOL Really good point. The most famous men on TV perhaps being Homer Simpson, and Al Bundy.
However, that doesn't negatively affect/effect men in any meaningful way.. Neither does the Father's day commercial or anything like that.
There is NO War on Family values. That's a myth perpetrated by the "poor me" crowd. Those weak males that have no backbone and can't take responsibility for their own lives. They must find someone to blame and that of course is Women.
Grow a pair mates and take responsibility for your own lives. I do. No woman walks all over me. The non existent war on family fails to hurt me or my family.
The truth is that men are CEOs and presidents of most of the big companies in the world. Men make more films. Men make up most of the military and military leadership in the world. Men make more money than women. Men generally have more power than women. Men make up most of the world leaders and men hold most political offices in the US
Stop being victims and take control of your lives.
originally posted by: christophoros
a reply to: ghostrager
So your trying to force women into marriage I don't get it? What exactly is your solution to stop divorce rate? My mom is divorced she didn't decide to do it on a whim. My dad was a piece of sht adulterer. You do know you have to cite reasons for getting divorced right? You seem to be pointing the finger at women for divorce rates when it is literally one of the hardest things a women can do. You know taking care of kids with no help and financial insecurity. Women totally want that! Come on if men had the balls and weren't so egotistical and listened to their partners maybe women wouldn't divorce them.
originally posted by: christophoros
a reply to: mahatche
Hey there is enough toughness in the male community. You know what there isn't? Responsibility,leadership,communication,empathy, and a whole bunch of other thing we are good in the tough department.