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originally posted by: HomerinNC
a reply to: Annee
We (his mother and I) did start early. When he threw a temper tantrum, we tried punish him by sending him to his room, when he acted out in there, I spanked him. He hasnt thrown a fit since. Nowadays, he is well behaved and polite.
Dont get me wrong, I DO blame the parents when they get to this point, the parents should have put their foot down when they were younger, but with the threat of child abuse looms over their heads JUST for disciplining a child, thanks to all the liberals out there, these parents dont know what to do.
Myself, I didnt give a damn, if he acted out, he got the belt, just as I did.
originally posted by: ScientificRailgun
Umm... No. A spanking is an open-handed slap on the buttocks. It doesn't do any more than cause mild pain and a little humiliation. A beating is something entirely different. A beating would implying closed fists and landing blows elsewhere on the body such as the chest, arms, legs, face, etc. A spanking doesn't even leave a bruise, at worst it leaves a little red mark.
originally posted by: AutumnWitch657
Whats the difference between a spanking and a beating? The location where the blows land that's it. reply to: ladyinwaiting
I really can't stand it when people call a spanking "child abuse"
originally posted by: ScientificRailgun
When I was 14. I called my mom the "b" word. Once.
A cast iron pan upside the head corrected that behaviour awful fast. Never called my mom the "b" ever again.
Kids these days are far too coddled.
originally posted by: MystikMushroom
Frankly, I think we've gotten to soft of kids these days and look the other way while they run amok -- often diagnosing them with titles such as ADD or ADHD when in fact they just need some discipline.
originally posted by: AutumnWitch657
And that thousands of years of sparing the rod has given us a violent war prone society so much for that example. reply to: HomerinNC
I got too used to spankings for it to really affect me, especially being a rebellious 14 year old girl.
originally posted by: crazyewok
originally posted by: ScientificRailgun
When I was 14. I called my mom the "b" word. Once.
A cast iron pan upside the head corrected that behaviour awful fast. Never called my mom the "b" ever again.
Kids these days are far too coddled.
Wooden spoon for me across the arse.
originally posted by: ScientificRailgun
I got too used to spankings for it to really affect me, especially being a rebellious 14 year old girl.
originally posted by: crazyewok
originally posted by: ScientificRailgun
When I was 14. I called my mom the "b" word. Once.
A cast iron pan upside the head corrected that behaviour awful fast. Never called my mom the "b" ever again.
Kids these days are far too coddled.
Wooden spoon for me across the arse.
Getting laughed at in school or on the playground is part of growing up. Kids get picked on, it happens. Whether it's a bad haircut, farting in class, forgetting your books, saying something silly, etc. Embarrassment and Humiliation help shape young minds and learn what is socially acceptable and what is not. I don't really see this as "pushing the punishment onto others". You're punishing the child with a bad haircut. What happens after that is simply a learning experience for the child.
originally posted by: rukia
a reply to: ScientificRailgun
you're missing the point. Parents have a duty to protect their children. Punishment is all well and good. But opening one's child up to punishment from those that are not the child's parents is simply abhorrent.
It's like saying, ok hey I can't discipline my kid--so you do it for me.
And it's wrong.
Two wrongs don't make a right.