posted on Jan, 15 2014 @ 02:59 AM
For heavens sake!
All relationships are based on the very same give and take arrangement.
When you go looking for a partner what do you look for. Here is a list both old fashioned and new. Hey, add to it if I have missed anything.
I want a good provider for our kids when we get them
Someone with good career prospects.
Someone my friends will swoon over
someone that impresses my friends / parents / whomever
someone with big / small / long / shapely (insert body part here)
Someone with money
Has to have a (insert brand name) (insert a thing)
Has to love me.
Has to do what they are told / has to take care of me.
Has to like cats / dogs / budgies / other animal
Has to be good at sex / ping pong / tennis / other
These arrangements are no different. The sugar daddy wants a lovely partner to show off / have sex with / whatever.
It is all the same thing. We all want our needs serviced by a partner, whatever those needs are. These people are just staing their needs, wants and
aspirations in a rather forthright, very direct manner.
Get over it. Live and let live. Should be more of this direct communication.
No one batts an eyelid when an old first rate actor has a twenty something hanging of his / her arm.