posted on Jun, 16 2013 @ 07:44 AM
As a male, I agree, but it works both ways of course.
Today, there are two excellent ways to check somebody out.
If they are computer savvy, put their name into Google or some other search engine and see what you get.
If they are less worldly, put their name into one of the criminal records sites. It may cost you a few bucks but the data may save heartache down the
Most importantly, ladies, what kind of a guy are you attracted to? Some women can't help themselves but be attracted to the bad boy or mysterious
type. So it is important to know if you, yourself, are sitting yourself up for failure. (My son is one of that type, and I swear, the women in his
life know they are really just asking for failure but can't help themselves.)
Trust is one of the most important qualities in a relationship. But extending that to a new lover has its limits. Blind trust is not healthy and is
not to be given gratis. It is earned. Keep your eyes and ears open. Are there indications that a response or explanation from your man just seems
shaky or too illogical?
Know you limits and tolerances for how you want from a man. The most common mistake most women make is that they believe they can change the man into
what they want. That rarely happens without some form of resistance from the man. You can count on it.