posted on Jun, 15 2013 @ 01:41 PM
I see this all the time with my sister, aunts, female cousins, and so on. So I figured I'd put this out there as a warning.
Don't just fall for any guy. You should make a list of features, morals, ethics, and standards for your ideal guy and if the guy does not match those
standards, then let him go. Here's why.
Men will put a fake facade and fake showmanship up while first dating you. It is to impress you, your family, and your friends. Then once they have
you, or get you pregnant, then all the fakeness falls away and you find out who the real guy is underneath the fake masks.
I tell this to all the women in my family, and since I've given them this advice, their lives are so much better. Except for one cousin. She met a
guy, he pretended to be prince charming, got her pregnant, and now the Real Him has come out. Only cares about himself, doesn't bring back food for
her for dinner (only for himself), basically keeps her locked up in the house and no one is allowed over there. Their fridge is always empty. Pays
child support that she just found out about. Felonies, etc. She has become depressed, doesn't talk to anyone, and it's just a sad sight to see.
So keep that in mind when you are dating someone who is new. Really get to know him. See what his friends say about him, what family says about him,
don't give in with sex until months later. Really test him and see what he is made out of. Because majority of men put up a fake front to get the
girl, and what is really underneath is sometimes scary and sad.
edit on 15-6-2013 by dominicus because: (no reason given)