posted on Jan, 4 2013 @ 01:28 PM
The insignificant nobody me had refrained from this debate ever since it started around the world, but very few here on ATS, reason being that it is a
highly emotive issue right now in India and amongst womenhood worldwide, and they WILL REFUSE to accept logic and reason, simply out of fear that all
that they lived for, their causes, will be destroyed by truth, reality, logic and reason.
Nevertheless, I shall wade into this debate, without fear or favor, to share insights and not force minds to change.
It was most certainly despicable over what the indian men had done to the girl that they had sexually assualted, and there can be NO excuses in
anyway, more so when the poor girl had died. They must be given the highest punishment for this atrocious crimes.
However, the emotional outpourings for the blood of the culprits is misled.
It is NOT the culprits that society must resolve, but rather, the mindsets, as there are probably MILLION other indian men waiting to pounce upon
women, regardless of the outcomes if caught by society.
Many blamed the slum dwelling men as being sexual assualters. But the fact is - sexual assualt cases happened within EVERY strata of society from high
to low. To blame slum dwellers would be to let the rich or middle class predators off the hook.
We must tackle the ROOT of the problem if we are to ensure that less and gradually no more sexual assualt cases happen.
Beginning with the slum dwellers first - they have no opportunity in life, and no woman will want them in any way, as the saying goes-'love does not
pay the rent'. But these men have natural urges, so what are they to do? Even prostitutes - the oldest proffesion on Earth, ignores them as they have
no job opportunities, in education and are uncoouth, and no money.
Thanks to the corrupted govt of india, these men saw no hope for themselves. They live day by day, and when the natural urges come, espacially
embolden after being heavy on liqour, any female walking nearby becomes their target.
When they are caught, they have no care for life, for it is already miserable in the first place with no opportunities in life, forever marginalized
with no hope. Death becomes only another form of release to them. Life is cheap in their view. Thus, killing sexual assaulters, from the slums is the
most stupid thing to do.
Execution is but only a short term solution, a warming of the heart to see the culprits hang, but it will NOT stop further sexual assualts.
What the slum dwellers need is hope and real opportunities in life.
1. For the short term, legalize the oldest profession in the world, regulate it and ensure that it is affordable and filled ONLY with those whom had
volunteered for such services, and not out of force or circumstances that the state could have help.
2. Change deeply ingrained mindsets of indians over marriage.
The slum dwellers have no opportunities in life and are shunned by match-makers. Women in India have to pay an enormous dowry to the bridegroom to get
Necessity calls for change. Instead, let the slum dwelling men make token dowries to the wives, whom in modern India, do have careers as their own -
doctors, lawyers, nurses, teachers, technicians, etc, and can afford to take care of the family. And not all of them are pretty enough to snare
husbands, and remained single for life.
Let the men marry 'into' the family, become house husbands and take care of the children if any. There is no shame in being a househusband who takes
loving care of the home, but there is great shame if a man gifted with life revels in poverty and enjoys killing, hurting and harming another fellow
Not many chavunistic male will bed to such levels to become househusband, not even slum dwellers, but in the face of perpetual poverty, this is one
hope that they can look forward to, instead of seeking fatalistic means to live this miserable life.
3. Corrupted Indian govt leadership- I need not waste further words on this point. It had already been well known and documented for decades if not
centuries, for failing its own people.
As for the rich and middle classes whom carried out sexual assualts upon women, the best thing to do is to USE MONEY to penalise them - FOR LIFE, the
way western divorce laws cripple many a divorced person, male or female.
Execute a man or chemically/physically castrate him, he feels nothing, but only remembers with pleasure the hurt and harm he had done while still
But make him part with a portion of his money FOR LIFE - he will feel the deaths of a thousand cuts, over loss of opportunities and other rewards of
living by sacrificing all that to make monthly payments for his crime.
Being rich and middle class, he will need to live, and fully capable of doing so, thus he will not seek the easy way out by being bankrupt. He has a
life to live, enjoy his wealth, enjoy pleasures in any form, and will not give it all up easily, no more than divorce persons rotting for a few weeks
in prison for missing a month's alimony check.
These are only some of my personal views, but I am sure that there are better minds out there, whom can share insights that a new and relevant to this
thread, which may help our fellow human brothers and sisters in India, through our own individual social networks that reaches out to the world.
But still, no matter what, it is the ROOT of problems that mankind must tackle, not the feel good surface effects that stops nothing in reality.