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Originally posted by IandEye
this is the synthesis of 3 threads on here lately....
the problem with women
my little pony
american woman princess syndrome
where I live I've noticed that women flourish. In the desert that's next to impossible to do. Yet somehow these women from all over the country come to the southwest and thrive. How does this happen? Well, they've banded together in a close-lnit social network of 'womanhood'.
the men here- however- don't have it so easy. They're drunken pseudo-cowboys with "buddy" trucks and chips the size of Texas on their shoulders about some little thing that happened years ago. The very thing that "allows" them to be drunken victims of their own lives....
anyhow- I don't think it's difficult to see that the masculine energy in america has tipped one way and it's not more towards men. Sure- I'm the 1st to agree this has been a patriarchial world and many men have abused their power over women over 10,000+ years. Still- does that give women the right to hate men? I don't think so, but somehoe, for some women (men too) their hatred is holy and binds a lot of people together.
hatred comes from too much 'self' and that itself is narcissism. Women are trained to compete to be the center of attention (some men too) which is akin to being in control of a given situation. Control is narcissism as well as fear developed from expectations....again narcissism.
yes narcissus was a man, but how much of one was he?
Originally posted by EndlessFire
reply to post by smyleegrl
I think it depends on what part of the 'south' you live in. Where I live I have never been 'trained to be meek'. Maybe it's a difference in economic background. There was no women staying at home with no job when I was young (20 years ago), everybody had to work. Now saying that, my biological father treated my bio mother like crap, but that wasn't the norm. And about women trained to be the center of attention( which is the wrong word I think), even in small southern towns women see on the news about such things, and companies can still have law suits brought against them(and win most of the time no matter if they were right or wrong), because there is always some group with a fund and a lawyer willing to help women sue.
I don't even know if that makes as much sense in writing as it did in my head! Sorry if it didn't.
Originally posted by rottenrascals
reply to post by luciddream
Absolutely. In today's world, men are the oppressed gender.
False rape charges, BS custody laws, less men are in school pursuing higher education, men are more likely to be victims of domestic abuse, 95% of workplace deaths are men, men commit suicide at a rate triple to woman.
Today the hot button issue is that women's right to reproduction is being abused. Well as men we have none. All your Girlfriend/Wife has to do is stop taking birth control and you're stuck with a kid. Woman have a right to choose, but as the man we have no right. We can't force paternity tests on you. And then men have to pay child support for a kid they didn't want.
So if this is a war of control. Woman won.
Originally posted by smyleegrl
Because I live in the south, and women are "trained" to be meek, quiet, and subservient.
Originally posted by maria_stardust
So, but much of the pseudo-logic being bandied about in this thread -- it's women's fault that men aren't as manly as they once were. How convienient.
I'm curious, though. What would it take for you guys to recapture your missing manhood?
Seriously, I would like to know.
Originally posted by Lysergic
Originally posted by smyleegrl
Because I live in the south, and women are "trained" to be meek, quiet, and subservient.
Really?
Which Baptist state is that?
Because it's not so much the case in TX,
Seems a myth of yesteryear.
I digress... going OT heh.
edit on 22-8-2012 by Lysergic because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by maria_stardust
So, but much of the pseudo-logic being bandied about in this thread -- it's women's fault that men aren't as manly as they once were. How convienient.
I'm curious, though. What would it take for you guys to recapture your missing manhood?
Seriously, I would like to know.