I think you should just not accept her appointments.
I will give you an example.
Every Sunday at work, this guy comes into my bar and asks for a shot of whiskey in a wide shot glass with one ice cube. He then asks for an expresso,
short and strong.
I have always served him though he is probably a homeless alcoholic that smells bad and is rude and slightly insane.
I never had a real problem with him....until last week. He orders the same thing, but starts talking aloud. He goes on and on about hypocrisy,
conspiracies, liars, thieves, ect...
At first I laughed a bit and just ignored it all, until he started being a weirdo to my customers...
I had to throw him out today....I will not risk him going into a rant with an old lady or some guys wife...or a pissed off miner or something..
I think he just wants to get arrested so he can sleep it off. Saturday must be party night for him. After his rant he goes outside and screams at
people having a nice European Sunday stroll. He then bull fights the cop cars until they arrest him. He talks to the cops, vents, and goes happily
with them feeling all important riding in a cop car....like it was a limo.
Mind you I am from NY and have seen all sorts of crazies.....
You can let it slide until they get comfortable. Then they are dangerous because they start to incorporate you into their fantasy. When they are
unsure of their surroundings they are harmless. Your boss should NOT talk to her and make her feel "welcome"
Do the job until she makes it uncomfortable, if she has not already. When it is too much just say you are booked and cant help her.
If she needs trained help, some one whom she pisses off and goes too far with will make that call. If all she is doing is getting attention, just
ignore her and make it boring.
People who act crazy like that are very smart and just want you to notice them. Make them feel important, and/ or validate their fantasy with real
life contributions. End the game and make it less interesting for her.
don't worry though, she seems to just be lonely and jaded.
edit on 29-7-2012 by BIHOTZ because: (no reason given)