reply to post by NewerBeing
We are what we choose to be. You are wise and awakened. Find the right woman for yourself, she is out there. You may have to leave Toronto to find
her, but don't settle for just any woman and for the sake of yourself and society, do not risk procreating with the kind of woman you do not respect
and who would perpetuate destructive values to your children. People are always talking about how women need to be more selective and not accept men
who are trash, but for society to gain any real benefit the values have to go both ways and men simply must stop sleeping with and risk impregnating
stupid useless women and creating children who won't get the care and education and upbringing they deserve. A pretty face and fine figure will
count for nothing if the woman has a bad character and ends up with enough hold over a man to make his life a living hell. Usually that hold is
What you say and show about black women is true for a lot of white women these days, too. That subculture
you wisely avoid is now embraced by a whole new generation of whites, too, and whites throw their own spin on it. But at its heart it is the same old
Laziness, materialism, ignorance, vice, shortsightedness is not endemic to any one race. Do not fall into that trap of believing it is. Get out into
the world and see how stupid the other half lives!
Your point about the media feuling this IS a really excellent one. It is all about marketing. The corporations can't sell you their crap unless
they convince you you NEED it. There was a time that we taught children that the things worth valuing were things that money can't buy: family, self
respect, faith, community.
But over time businesses got better and better at using all the advances in psychology and changes in culture to shift the focus onto the idea that
you HAVE to BUY family, self respect...and even faith and community. We got told we wouldn't attract spouses unless our shirts and our teeth were
white, our hair was made the opposite of whatever it naturally is. Meaning women like me with straight hair were sold on perms, women with curly
hair were sold on flat irons and straighteners. Tan people need to get lighter, light people need to get more tan. Fat people need to get skinny,
thin people need to get curves. For every condition of existence, there is a product out there to change it into something else.
And there are scheming people looking to CREATE and fuel the insecurities in people to buy these things and change themselves. They get sold on the
idea they are not good enough as they are, but if they have the right hair, smell the right scent, drive the right car, make the right kind of
money...they will be somebody.
Self worth and self respect got separated from a person's actions and choices and instead got tied into how much money they acquired and how much
stuff they own. And this happened all across the board, all across racial and cultural lines and to both genders and all ages.
It's not that there is necessarily an evil conspiracy behind it. It is just about corporations doing what corporations do, maximizing profits no
matter the cost to society, to mankind, to the earth itself. Media and pop culture happens to be a very effective tool to use for them.
But hold onto hope. Not everyone buys into this. Look around and find the awakened people, they are out there. Look beyond pretty faces and fine
figures yourself. Look at morals, character and values. Find your right woman, have a beautiful family, treasure them, teach them and let's rebuild
our culture one family unit at a time.