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Originally posted by aprilc1
Unfortunately there are many of us know what this girl went through-if another adult in the workplace came into your cubicle or whatever and destroyed your personal property, knocked you around, threatened sexual assault you would no doubt that person arrested. Yet some of you are justifying and trivializing this young girls pain. You wouldnt tolerate your neighbor or coworker treating you that way-why should a child have to tolerate it? We need to stop thinking of it as "teasing", "name calling" or even "bullying" call it what it is "Physical Abuse" "Sexual Abuse" "Vandalism" "Assault"
Originally posted by predator0187
I think the fact that people kill themselves over bullying crazy.
Why are we taught to care so much about what others think? Who cares? Generally anyone that goes out of their way to make others lives miserable are miserable themselves. They are the ones trapped in prisons, why people get so offended by words...I don't know.
The only thing that can prevent bullying is confidence in children, they need to be sure of themselves and know that they are good people.
Originally posted by predator0187
reply to post by aprilc1
With technology we have been able to keep our weaker members of the species alive longer, which is different than most animals, but it does nothing but dilute our genetic lines. Sounds bad, I know, but in nature our handicapped ones wouldn't last that long.
My daughters are still younger, they are taking kickboxing, I will prepare them if anyone wants to pick fights. But I make sure my girls know they don't have to put up with crap like this. Just walk away and forget about it, the ones doing it have the issues, but in case it goes further, they will have self defense and mace.
Originally posted by gabby2011
reply to post by predator0187
My daughters are still younger, they are taking kickboxing, I will prepare them if anyone wants to pick fights. But I make sure my girls know they don't have to put up with crap like this. Just walk away and forget about it, the ones doing it have the issues, but in case it goes further, they will have self defense and mace.
Hopefully you will also teach them not to prey on the weak.. and to stand up against those who bully and prey on the weak..
That just as important..if not more important.. for children to learn.
Originally posted by predator0187
reply to post by aprilc1
Sexual abuse is beyond bullying in my book, that is a criminal activity and should be treated so. As for physical abuse, yea, that's going to happen. It happens in nature with almost any species, and will happen to ours, usually it does not entail life threatening beatings, nor life changing, but that happens in nature as well.
I think us as humans worse thought is that we are not animals, we try and act like we are above them, and someday we might be, but as for now we are a universal time scale away from living in forests mating with chimpanzees.
With technology we have been able to keep our weaker members of the species alive longer, which is different than most animals, but it does nothing but dilute our genetic lines. Sounds bad, I know, but in nature our handicapped ones wouldn't last that long. Look at all of nature for those numbers.
Again, I don't mean to sound cold-hearted, I am just looking at the fact that we are animals.
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Originally posted by Ookie
Originally posted by aprilc1
Ive been saying this for years. When a school shooting happens everyone is so quick to say how evil the shooter is and they cover up the fact that for every school shooting 7 more kids at least kill themselves because of bullying. And if they had gone into Columbine in the months before the shootings Id be willing to bet those vicims were not all innocent. Its time we wake up and start teaching our children that being able to throw a football, junp in time to music etc doesnt make you better than anyone else and the rules still apply and that being "pretty" is an accident. Then maybe this crap will stop.
You need to research Columbine a little more. It wasn't bullying. It was jewish supremacists who murdered the Christian Bible club and then killed a few more for added measure. It was a religious hate crime, not a stand against bullies.
As to bullies, I had enough of them in school. It stopped when I started shooting at them. amazing what a few bullets can do to stop the picking. There was a case in Florida last week where a bully got 12 stabs to the chest and the victim got off scott free. A little more of that and the bullies may think twice before picking. Mt only regret is that I missed when I shot at my bullies. Not by much, but I'd really rathered kill them. I still would if I saw them. Bullies need one thing, death.
Originally posted by predator0187
I think the fact that people kill themselves over bullying crazy.
Why are we taught to care so much about what others think? Who cares? Generally anyone that goes out of their way to make others lives miserable are miserable themselves. They are the ones trapped in prisons, why people get so offended by words...I don't know.
I know this sounds really mean, and I really don't intened it to be like that, so try and think about what I'm saying...I think if people are weak minded and are willing to kill themselves over simple name calling, let them go. Darwin invented the term 'natural selection', that's all this is.
I'm not saying children can't be mean, I remember bullying in my schools, and at times it could get bad, but usually people get picked on if they allow themselves to appear weak.
The only thing that can prevent bullying is confidence in children, they need to be sure of themselves and know that they are good people. If not instilled by their parents (and not by just telling them they're pretty/handsome and smart, but actually teaching them to learn for themselves) then the kids are doomed.
I feel bad for the parents, but god, get your kid off Facebook, twitter and whatever else kids use, teach them that learning is important and who cares about kids calling you names.
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