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Originally posted by Submarines
Unfortunately, I have been in the same position as this guy.
Talk about embarrassment and humiliation. You have no idea what it's like having to go through supervised visitation with your child. Two years of investigations that were unfounded. Makes life hell.
I feel his pain!
Originally posted by ParAvion
Yeah same here, I am still in the middle of it, been going on for near 3 years now...
From my experience I can say that it would be preferable to be falsely accused of murder than of abusing your own children. In the end the truth comes out,
Originally posted by Skate
Don't you all just hate being wrongfully accused?
Thousands of people in prison and jail right NOW have been wrongfully accused of random acts of violence such as murder and are in prison for the rest of their life, even though they didn't do a damn thing. It's shameful to see the system screwing over peoples' lives.
S&Fedit on 27-8-2011 by Skate because: S&F
Originally posted by Death_Kron
I've been saying this for a while now, but unfortunately the judicial system favours women in all sex related cases.
Originally posted by dolphinfan
reply to post by CynicalDrivel
Society thinks nothing of a woman slapping a man across the face and typically does not consider that abuse. Society has a totally different view of a man slapping a woman across the face and definately considers that abuse. Why is that?
Originally posted by LargeFries
reply to post by Eirian
Not only is it sad how low some people will stoop in divorce cases and others involving false allegations, this reprehensible behavior has had an effect on many facets of society.
Many modern day men would not think to ask a younger person for directions if they are lost for fear of someone thinking the wrong thing and the resulting police involvement.
Even more single women with children suffer from other peoples poor behavior. I've seen many men comment online that they would never consider dating a woman with children because the possibility exists that if the woman was angered or felt she was wronged, the fellow could be falsely accused of several life-ruining taboos. Simply proving innocence is quite costly and the damage to personal reputation is permanent in many peoples eyes.
Meanwhile there are many wonderful ladies out there who may like to re-marry and have a good Dad figure for their children. With so many reported incidents in the news many fellows aren't willing to risk the chance.
They take a break after a big lunch because they are from the tropics. We see them as lazy because their culture has them take a nap during some of our most productive hours.
Originally posted by dolphinfan
And Mexicans are lazy
A lot of women dye their for the specific purpose of being allowed to act dumb and get away with it.
Blonds are dumb
I thought that that was supposed to be a Jewish reference?
Asians sneaky
You know, all the alcoholics in my family are English/Irish descent--or else French? The oppressed are drunks--as in you escape when you have no hope. The Irish for many generations had no hope, and their drinking was often the result--to the point where we have the historical reference to "Irish are drunks". Those of Irish genetics can often hold more liquor-there's enough studies on that, as well as studies about Alcoholics generally can hold more liquor than those who are not--sooner or later, someone's going to put 2+2 together, even when it doesn't actually match up *shrugs*. My father was worried that I'd start using the phrase "Drunk Indian" because the Native Americans I ran into up north would either pass out in the snow from drinking, or wake up from being passed out long enough to take another swig of whiskey, then pass out again. There is a genetic tendency of having problems with Alcohol in the Native American population, something about how they process alcohol.
Irish are drunks
No, blacks are genetically predisposed to carry a lot less fat to muscle ratio--which works well for sports. Not saying that they can't be fat, by any means, just that they as a race tend carry more muscle under their fat than whites do. (And I don't even really believe in races. That's the best part!)
Blacks are all good atheletes
Was not rash at all. There's far less damage in any given house to the drywall having holes punched in it due to a tantrum from a girl. If she's put holes, she has used a baseball bat to do it. Testosterone produces certain behaviors--and it is up to a man to control that tendency in himself.
Your rash generalization about how men behave is outrageous.
Of course. Go watch Beyond Scared Straight. Women in crimes don't tend to think that they will be punished.
Female against male domestic violence is massively under reported due to cultural norms
At the same time, how many women can actually strike with as much force as a guy? It's one thing to hit a guy, but it's another thing to feel like you're doing equal damage. That builds resentment.
"And yet, more than 200 survey-based studies show that domestic violence is just as likely to strike men as women. In fact, the overwhelming mass of evidence indicates that half of all domestic violence cases involve an exchange of blows and the remaining 50% is evenly split between men and women who are brutalized by their partners.
It is a shame, simply a shame that this goes on.
Part of the reason that this problem is widely ignored lies in the notion that battered males are weak or unmanly. A good example of this is the Barry Williams case: Recently, the former Brady Bunch star sought a restraining order against his live-in girlfriend, who had hit him, stolen $29,000 from his bank account, attempted to kick and stab him and had repeatedly threatened his life."
www.dailyfinance.com...
And as such was not what I meant at all. Tendencies are tendencies, not what you DO. Testosterone triggers fight, not flight. Women tend to go hulking she-bear only when you mess with their kids. And I don't necessarily agree that men do more damage--yes in a physical realm, they do, but the psychological realm is where a lot of women do damage. And no, I'm not excluding the isolationist behavior from a predator in this thought either.
Granted, men can cause more harm when they abuse, but to suggest that all men are likely to respond physically in a domestic conflict or that all women are passive in those conflicts, is simply wrong.
My dad punched a man for cutting him with a razor blade and the man's sinus cavaties collapsed. My mom does that, and all she leaves is maybe a cracked bone--and this is a woman who can dead-curl more than 60 pounds after years of not weightlifting. While it is not right for a woman to hit a man nay more than it is for the man to hit the woman, the direct effect of the woman's actions are plain not as severe. If her slap doesn't leave a mark, like the cops care. Men have to hold back to prevent the damage from showing
Society thinks nothing of a woman slapping a man across the face and typically does not consider that abuse. Society has a totally different view of a man slapping a woman across the face and definately considers that abuse. Why is that?