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Originally posted by spoonbender
find out what bed she will be sleeping in...
add Itching Powder and it will shorten her stay
My father use to employ this technique back in the 50's or 60's with my mothers parents....
said it worked great
Originally posted by TylerDurden2U
talk about it with him! if your communication is that good, then the right words will connect on both sides. if the situation were reversed, how would he feel? make sure your presence is known! she doesnt know how much or how little you are in his life. this will be a good test for both of you to see just how much you want a future together! and best wishes to you and the one that makes you smile!
Originally posted by mblahnikluver
So here is my dilemma...
I've been seeing someone for 4mths and he is absolutely amazing. I met him on a dating site and we were both surprised how well we got along and how much we had in common. I can't say enough good things about him. He's also an awesome dad which is one of the things I just love about him. He literally calls me every night to say goodnight and we talk for hours. We have gone two days where we didn't talk and that's only because my phone was having service issues, but he did call the next morning on the way to work. Again I can't say how great he is. He is the first guy I've been with in 10yrs that knows the meaning if the word communication! It's amazing!
Now to my dilemma. His daughters bday is this month and his ex wife and her parents will be coming down to stay but they are staying with him. They don't have the money to stay in a hotel and my bf doesn't want her there but he doesn't want to disappoint his daughter. I understand why he is letting her stay there, it's ultimately about his daughters bday and her being happy but it is really bothering me. I have bad luck with guys and their exes, they always meddle and get in the way. I don't know how long she is staying and IMO 3days is plenty, nothing more.
I trust him 100% but I do know she still wants him back even though they've been divorced 6yrs. I guess that's the part that bothers me and I also wonder how he will act towards me when she is here. He said nothing will change but he knows she will bug him about who he is on the phone with. She knows he is seeing someone but she doesn't know anything about me.
I'm very easy going and I'm not the jealous possessive type but this is bothering me more than I thought it would.
Any advice how to deal with it when she gets here?
Originally posted by mblahnikluver
Now to my dilemma. His daughters bday is this month and his ex wife and her parents will be coming down to stay but they are staying with him. They don't have the money to stay in a hotel and my bf doesn't want her there but he doesn't want to disappoint his daughter. I understand why he is letting her stay there, it's ultimately about his daughters bday and her being happy but it is really bothering me. I have bad luck with guys and their exes, they always meddle and get in the way. I don't know how long she is staying and IMO 3days is plenty, nothing more.
Any advice how to deal with it when she gets here?
Thanks! However Im not meeting her.
Originally posted by Gazrok
reply to post by mblahnikluver
Any advice how to deal with it when she gets here?
4 months is enough to be considered part of his life now. No reason why you should be excluded from this event. It also gives you two a chance to feel each other out (you and the ex), and for her to see you as part of his life, and not like a secret.
Thanks! However Im not meeting her.
Why not?
edit on 25-7-2011 by Gazrok because: (no reason given)
why not?