Illinios H.S. science project exposes adoption, page 2
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reply posted on 1-7-2011 @ 08:48 PM by TheBirdisDone
Originally posted by BiggyMcBigPants
reply to
post by getreadyalready


Good point. Also just noticed the OP referred to the parents as his brother in law and wife... ummm, I don't know about the OP, but I always refer to my brother in law's wife as my sister.



It could be his wife's BROTHER and his wife. :-)
We did a blood typing project in HS, 30 some years ago - it was a pretty easy project.
Some types cannot be born from others - so perhaps it was not DNA - but genetics studies and a simple typing test that did result in a blood type NOT expected and questions arising as a result. In any regard his parents should have told this child at an early age. This is going to create a lasting emotional problem. As a matter of fact my guess is there are emotional problems and dysfuction pre-existing in this situation otherwise his parents would have raised him with this knowledge in a matter of fact way. Sad.
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reply posted on 1-7-2011 @ 08:56 PM by TheBirdisDone
Originally posted by OLD HIPPY DUDE
2. I already said I don't know all the specifics , twice.
He is in bioligy class, what other way than a DNA test would tell him he's adopted ?
(not related to his parents?)

4. What age should a child be told they are adopted?
It isn't my kid, so its not my choice


Answer to 2. It is possible it was a BLOOD TYPING project as some types cannot be born to others.
(I just did a simple google search and type O parents cannot have a type A child, I think there are other examples of this with other type mixes but this is a start. This is a simple lab project and easily done in HS biology class)
Answer to 4. This child should have been RAISED with this knowledge!!!! There are beautifully illustrated books out there now FOR TODDLERS that cover this topic so it is presenting in a sensative and loving way. As in your parent Loved you enough to let you go because they didn't have the resources to care for you, and WE Loved you enough to bring you home. We waited and prayed for you to come into our lives. ect.

This is just one major, major area where it is not in the best interest of anyone to lie. It seems to me that families that have a problem with honestly in matters like this have other dysfunctions relating to honestly, you know skeletons, old bones. Family secrets. All it does is cause emotional pain when the individual discovers the "truth" and now has to face the mountain of doubt about everything else. But to be at loss about your very IDENTITY. I feel empathy for this kid.
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