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We’ve all been there. A lover, out of the blue, says it’s over. Suddenly there’s a stabbing sensation in the chest, or a wrenching of the gut. Though there’s been no physical damage, it really hurts.
The researchers rounded up 40 people who had been dumped by a lover within the previous six months – so the pain of rejection was still fresh.
For the first part of the experiment, the 40 were touched with a hot probe while they lay in a brain scanner. The probe wasn’t hot enough to burn, but it did hurt. “It’s akin to holding a really hot cup of coffee without the little guard to protect your hand,” Kross says. “You wouldn’t want to do it forever, but it doesn’t burn you.”
Originally posted by JibbyJedi
They say "the pain of rejection was still fresh".... what if the hurt wasn't about rejection, but more a hurt of loss, or remorse, or guilt, or a late realization? I haven't felt "rejected" since High School, I sure have gone through my share of personal 9/11s with break ups over the years, and I don't recommend dating an Americanized female. They are so programed and broken down mentally with all the TV and music pop culture, they all hate themselves and are just a bucket of crazy these days.
Originally posted by JibbyJedi
They say "the pain of rejection was still fresh".... what if the hurt wasn't about rejection, but more a hurt of loss, or remorse, or guilt, or a late realization? I haven't felt "rejected" since High School, I sure have gone through my share of personal 9/11s with break ups over the years, and I don't recommend dating an Americanized female. They are so programed and broken down mentally with all the TV and music pop culture, they all hate themselves and are just a bucket of crazy these days.
Originally posted by Dalbeck
Originally posted by JibbyJedi
They say "the pain of rejection was still fresh".... what if the hurt wasn't about rejection, but more a hurt of loss, or remorse, or guilt, or a late realization? I haven't felt "rejected" since High School, I sure have gone through my share of personal 9/11s with break ups over the years, and I don't recommend dating an Americanized female. They are so programed and broken down mentally with all the TV and music pop culture, they all hate themselves and are just a bucket of crazy these days.
Oh nooo, now you destroy my vision of getting to know an American girl and maybe marry her, I'm sick of German girls
Originally posted by mblahnikluver
Originally posted by Dalbeck
Originally posted by JibbyJedi
They say "the pain of rejection was still fresh".... what if the hurt wasn't about rejection, but more a hurt of loss, or remorse, or guilt, or a late realization? I haven't felt "rejected" since High School, I sure have gone through my share of personal 9/11s with break ups over the years, and I don't recommend dating an Americanized female. They are so programed and broken down mentally with all the TV and music pop culture, they all hate themselves and are just a bucket of crazy these days.
Oh nooo, now you destroy my vision of getting to know an American girl and maybe marry her, I'm sick of German girls
Hello, I'm American with some German ancestry, want to get hitched? LOL JK
Not all American women are this way, don't let your vision be destroyed!