posted on Mar, 24 2011 @ 01:24 PM
reply to post by leo123
See I take a different stance on this, for my partner I do not want a delicate flower who needs protecting, I want a partner, someone who is capable
and has my back when it comes down to it.
In the end these agreements protect both parties not just the Male, its a view that this benefits only one party (having on (male) or not(female) )
that causes these problems in the first place.
My wife has made more than me on more than a few occasions (based on end of the year earnings) it can be a give an take, sometimes Ill make more, some
times she does. A pre-nuptial benefited both of us, it simply lays out a plan on how we will handle assets held before the marriage, as well as
assets we hold during. We also laid out what happens to any eventual kids in the future.
Its not an adversarial situation at all, its common sense for the times we live in. Whens the best time to really figure this stuff out, when the
relationship is soured and you hate each other? Or when its just starting to get serious, where you can see a future with this person and you still
respect each other.
Instead all we see are these idiots who didn't plan and plopped out kids for #s and giggles, children deserve more than that.
edit on 24-3-2011
by benrl because: (no reason given)