I suppose I would be perceived as
one of these "radical" types of females.
However, it has little to do with "Feminism" - I am just very eccentric. Of course I do need the Feminism to enable my weirdness
That makes it easier for sure.
It is, and has always been, my wish - to live an unusual life.
I did not want to be a "house wife". I was not interested in that. Nor, have I ever really had any (stereotypical) "traditional" lifestyle - as my
relatives are all very eccentric also.
I have alot of education, 10+ years, in the sciences. That alone marks you as weird - male or female
I always thought that here in the US there was the concept of "Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Happiness."
So why can't I do what I want? What's wrong with being 'different'? I am not hurting anyone.
Also - because I am Uber Liberal - I believe people SHOULD live as they want and if one WANTS a "traditional" lifestyle - they SHOULD be able to do
that and have that! If it makes *them* happy - that is great!
No one should push any sort of life onto others.
It seems to me that alot of men *do want* a "traditional" wife. Which is OK, they can go get one, but you shouldn't try to force others to be what
you want, or get angry just because a female does not fit *your* ideal.
Same goes for "traditional minded" females - us non traditional females aren't out to get you. I'm not, anyway
We should try to accept people as individuals. Even June Cleaver wasn't June Cleaver LOL.
Speaking of weird - here's a thing I'd LOVE to see "go down" in an argument - I, female, am going to have to become "more butch", exercise more
/ do more weightlifting -> because I am getting Arthritis.
Argue the Arthritis out of me and I'll give you a BIG KISS!!!!
(I am WAY too young for this also! But it is hereditary, and I have been injured alot and have taken drugs/medicines which can precipitate and
Brings to mind something else to ponder - most accidents happen in the home. "House work" is actually quite physically demanding and often
dangerous. I myself have nearly been killed by a treacherous vacuum cleaner. It is possessed by SATAN!
So, I am too clumsy to hack serious
domestic work, personally. Not a good occupational choice for me. Or, the vacuum needs an exorcism
My hope is that everyone can try to have an open mind toward all, and accept individuality