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Originally posted by FutureIsWild
From my experience abortion is a very painful experience it feels like a part of you dies and its really hard to cope with. I do recommend going through the pregnancy and maybe adopting it out to another family. Ive even heard stories of the guy feeling the emotional strain so be aware.edit on 28-1-2011 by FutureIsWild because: editing
The main question is, am i being selfish for telling her i'm not ready? I already have and she gets really upset about it, i don't think a 20 year old (me) should have a child.
Originally posted by Gazrok
You better watch it though, and use your own stash of condoms (rather than her "holy" condoms, if you catch my drift). You don't want to JUST rely on her to practice birth control, or you will be trapped if she wants a kid.
Originally posted by doom27
whoa whoa whoa!
No ones pregnant. I probably just miscommunicated. Its that she wants to have a kid and i don't. She's on BC and all that good stuff, i've never been in a baby situation, for all i know i could be sterile.
The main question is, am i being selfish for telling her i'm not ready?