posted on Jan, 20 2011 @ 01:30 AM
I'm just going to throw this out there because I think fair's fair's... or it should be is the point I'm trying to make.
Every man I have been *close* to has been HIGHLY emotional.
the majority of men that I am even merely around, if there is an opportunity to hear them during small talk, they are constantly talking about their
feelings, gossiping and contemplating things that are typically said of women.
that's my experience... just sayin.
Even if you disagree, you have to understand that if *I* see it that way, it affects my perception and these conversations about figuring all out like
clock work, how people tick and how genders are so different and defined... well, I have a problem really relating to a lot of this. Not because I
haven't been in situations but because I often see it a completely different way.
It seems women are always supposed to be analyzing feelings and understanding some 'other' meaning behind little crap and everything's gotta be so
froo froo and emotionally complex. I just don't know.
I get emotional (audibly emotional) when people give me crap to deal with. i admit i'm quick to set off because my patience is spent but it's not
because I am emotional i think... not anymore than anyone else. I'm the one who wants things to not be complicated at all and when they become
complicated BAM... that doesn't agree with me. That's not complicated. That's pretty simple. I know what i want in life and i know how i feel and
yes, that might change tomorrow but it's really not all that complicated.
I am outraged at the worlds complications right now. the bull# around me just... uggh...it feels like it's killing me. Why do things always have to
be complicated? There are not close complication, I have eliminated most of that in my life and it's now pretty simple. I'm talking about the
feeling of being controlled by...uggh... it's just a bunch of crap.
The world is set out to break most people it seems. that's not complicated or hard to figure out or has anything really to do with a person inner
child or any of that crap. Life won't let you win. It's upsetting when this concept ties in with your direct reality... not just as a concept you
have been aware of. That's not complicated. We all have our own weaknesses in that reality. we all have our problems to deal with and people should
just be wary of that in everyone, not just one gender. Don't tread on people because people are doing their crap day in day out while thinking they
will never win against something that is controlling them. That's not something you want to mess around with. A lot of people think some just have it
made but we all have the capacity to hurt and no matter who you are, you most likely will at many points in your life. I can accept that and I can
respect that but when others can't and they start affecting people's lives because they can't... whew... that's maddening.
I don't do those things. I damn well know the value of and the motivation behind considering the situation of others or I would do those things to