Really, it depends on your viewpoint, even though it is quite coincidental!
firstly, as me being a woman, I know how they work.
She could've sounded smart but you really dont know who this woman is, she could genuinely not wanted to walk or maybe she saw all your stickers and
was under the impression you had alot of money (im assuming that people that were in the war do) and decided to do a bit of golddigging. You dont know
how long she has been around for and maybe she saw you as a potential target.
Also, if someone just let themselves into my house at that time expecially if your car was not there for a lift that also makes me second guess their
intentions, why does she always come that late?
You also said that she came past your house in a taxi and waved at you, so why did she not catch a taxi back from wherever she was? Or do taxis not
run that late in your area?
But on the flip side:
As you said you had not been in a relationship for a while because of your work hours but now you have settled down, I myself believe that everything
happens for a reason so maybe this is some sort of gift to you
As you said you served in the war, so im sure your gut instinct is alot stronger than the majority of people and the fact you did not pick up on
anything strange is quite significant.
She could just be extremely friendly and outgoing, and concidering she is by herself she may have thought the company was nice and just pretended that
she needed the second lift. Haha
Just looking at it from both sides
But my opinion is, why not see where it goes? It will kill you if you dont do anything about it and wonder where it could have gone.
So call the woman already.
edit on 5-10-2010 by littlecloud because: Typo