posted on Dec, 15 2009 @ 02:31 PM
I gotta tell ya my man, i felt real bad for ya so i wanted to learn more about you, so i read alot of your posts.
My theory is your a Narcassist, all joking aside you have alot of narcissistic tendencies. You dont want someone to love, you want someone to love
you, doesnt mattter who.
You bounce back and forth from self-loathing to self-promotion, its weird but the only constant is yourself.
Im not trying to be rude to you or put you down but if you take some time and read through your posts in this thread and others you will see that 98%
of your posts are either talking about yourself, or what is missing in your life. Even when you believe to be talking about others your talking about
how those others would benefit your life, how they could be so stupid to miss the gem that is you. Even when being sweet and making great statements
about how women should be treated it comes across more of saying it in hopes to impress some girls on here.
I come from a family of women and admitadly this makes me no expert but when you have as many sisters as i you spend a great amount of time near
women, i can tell you a few things they hate. Men who like drama, men who overplay basic emotions (love when like is in order) and men who cant
discuss a topic without discussing themself. My suggestion to you is to take a step back and re-evaluate, when you have low self esteem you are not
in a position to "love" anyone as one cannot love another if they do not love themself.
I dont think it is your intention to come across as a narcissit but it is my theory that you are in fact a great guy, but somewhere along the line you
realized that the great qualitites about you were not being seen by the opposite sex. My guess is somewhere around 16, so you started telling them
about your great qualitites not waiting for them to find them. By doing this your actaully blocking away your good qualities, go back to being your
normal great self and let all those great qualities about you come out like a present.
Perfect example how exciting is xmas morning if you get told all the gifts your getting? Not very right, but you find out one by one what you got and
suddenly your much more exicted about the day.
All my kind regards my man, U2U me if you need anyhting. Or wanna tell me off either way i welcome it my friend.