I can. And I would not allow it.
It is past for a reason. One lives a new life, and it is a parents job to protect a child to allow them to define who they are now based on their new
circumstances.
If wrong, they have only indulged a common fantasy.
If correct, they still emerse a person in that which is no longer theirs. A life lived in past glories.
Neither is an accepable choice.





