It sounds like the girl in your meeting had arranged with the meeting interrupter beforehand to come and maybe give her a 2 minute warning, knowing
that they were both interested in listening to the swearing in.
I think if it was another type of event... say, a rocket launch, and the space nerds in the office made sure to let the other space nerds know when it
was happening, it wouldn't be such a big deal.
A lack of specific invitation doesn't mean you were excluded. If I were interested (which I would have been) I would have asked to joined them - even
without an invitation.
This has absolutely nothing to do with Obama or "change".
We all work day in and day out as a team, and for the first time I think many of us came to realize that the black members of our office still see
things in terms of "us and them".
I think perhaps at least one white member does, too.
It's ironic that we have completely lost the shackles of racism
Where on Earth did you get that idea?