I'm a lefty. I have never sought leadership roles, but have had to be in that position from time to time. Though I don't avoid it, I'd just as
soon do my own thing and be left alone.
I write left-handed, and play guitar left-handed. I can do everything left or right handed, but play guitar or write.
When I was in second grade, the teacher was an old battle-ax, who, whenever she saw me writing left-handed, would grab my hand and hit it with a
ruler, all of the while broadcasting at the top of her voice, "Retarded peiple write with their left hands. This is not a retarded class, and you
are not a retarded child, so stop acting like one!". (no, this was not a catholic school.)
It did not realize that maybe I wasn't the one with the problem, so I didn't say anything to my mom about it, and this went on past the christmas
holidays. Finally one day, she grabbed my hand, went to take her swing, and I grabbed the ruler from her, smacked her hand about four good times, and
said, "That didn't feel good at all, did it?".
I found myself in the office, talking to the principal, and when my mom got to school, her. I was ashamed to admit what the problem was, and what
caused me to smack a teacher with a ruler. When I finally admitted what caused me to snap, my mother, (normally a calm woman), went ballistic. The
principal called a couple of the other kids from my class in, talked to them in his office, and verified what I'd told him.
I think the teacher got to retire ahead of time. I was just happy that the ordeal with her was over.
I know that for years, I tried to do as much as possible right-handed, and finally, just did what comes naturally, because it's like trying to climb
a waterfall.