Some people DO read the posts, they just read into them what they think another is saying because they've had dealings with said member before. And
when you read things into a post that isn't there, you only open yourself up to ignorance.
Well said.
Ignorance . . . Deny Ignorance . . .
It is so easy . . . being human . . . for most of us to
ASS U ME
that ALL the ignorance and the willy nilly wallowing in it is
on the OTHER side; over THERE; THEM.
Such a mind-set can easily lead to reading into posts--especially by
ONE OF . . . THEM (out-group individuals divergent from our primary reference group; someone of THOSE SORTS . . . who've likely pontificated to our
extreme distaste before . . . )
Such a mind-set can easily lead to reading into posts--especially by
ONE OF . . . THEM . . . things we ASSUME they are saying/would say BECAUSE we have them all sliced diced and packaged into our tidy little boxes that
we depend on so much to make reality tolerable, comfortable and comfortably intellectually manageable.
And, to be fair . . . often the strongest, most intense amongst us (yes, my mirror works) do tend to be pretty stereotypic in a LOT of our pontifical
pronouncements.
Yet, I don't know of anyone hereon who is totally a card-board cut-out of a 2 dimensional shallow critter of no depth and complexity at all.
But when things are intense--and a lot of our issues hereon are by nature inherently intense--when things ARE intense, we tend to cleave all the more
to stereotypic tidy little boxes with which to construe and manipulate components of reality more toward our comfort zone--even if it's "only" the
comfort zone of understandability per our perspective.
And, many times, our perspectives have been arrived at through enough painful hell and high water that we are loathe to even contemplate changing any
significant components of it.
Not sure therefore what.
I think it's helpful to earnestly endeavor to take each post as it's own BEING-NESS. And, then, to relate to it on that basis, in the present,
freshly--with as much fair-mindedness as possible.
Sure, there will be referents to other connections, history, evidence, perspective, structures etc. And those may need tied in sooner than later. But
to needlessly slam a new slant on life's complexities into some unfitting tidy little boxes FOR OUR EXISTENTIAL COMFORT, primarily, or only--is to
miss . . . a LOT. at least to potentially miss a lot.
Life and our typical issues hereon ARE ENORMOUSLY COMPLEX. Simple explanations and interpretations likely of necessity leave out a significant amount
of detail. Sometimes those details are critical details that change the truth of the reality entirely when left out. Denying ignorance means we must
include them no matter how offensive to our sensibilities and biases.
I think that takes courage and graciousness on all our parts.
--My flawed 2 cents worth.