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Originally posted by SteveR
First of all... focus on growing up.
It's a long process and I'm glad you're looking into it.
[edit on 15/5/07 by SteveR]
Originally posted by MajorMalfunction
Biotic, what most women want (and there are always the exception) is a man who loves them, treats them well, doesn't cheat (at least so that they suspect or find out -- affairs of the heart hurt worse than one night stands), who is tender, good hearted, affectionate. A sense of humor is good, as is talent in bed, but that is not the be-all and end-all of female relationships.
I'm going to try and put one more guy that fits that suit on the market.
I've never been with a guy that fits that particular suit, so I think they may be rather hard to come by -- the good ones already taken, as it were.
We want someone who treats us with respect and dignity, and when they're with us at least, to act faithful.
Dunno if this helps you or not, but maybe it's information you can use.
Im turning 20 on the 29th.
Originally posted by AccessDenied
Not sure of your age,
Never really seemed to be a problem for me... I have trouble with just about every other aspect of a relationship tho.
but I will say that young men obviously have a more difficult time being devoted to one woman
The fact that you recognize what most women want and try to adapt yourself somewhat to fit that is good.However don't ever go for a complete presonality shift just to impress someone.
It doesn't sound to me like you would do that though
Now I'm not usually one to judge, but from your posts here on ATS/BTS you sound intelligent, good sense of humour, and willing to improve areas of your life in which you feel the need( alot of men would not).
I think you just haven't found the women who brings out all the right qualities in you.Contrary to popular belief there as just as many women who view guys the way you described above. Thats not the kind for you. Nor the kind who is clingy and needy as it sounds like you prefer to have time to be in your own space.
Good, thats why I post here.. so people like you can analyze my thoughts for me, haha. Miss right instead of miss right now.. I like that. THanks for the advice AD, appreciate it a great deal.
Damn Biotic- you made me sound like an analyst.Any way hope this is good advice for you.Keep looking for miss right instead of miss right now.