posted on Oct, 24 2003 @ 10:02 PM
The big question is how old are the both of you, and how well do you know each other?
If you have been pining for her for 5 years, and you started at 6 and now your are 11, then she just might not be ready for the type of relationship
you are proposing and maybe you should get into Xbox or something.
If you are in your teens - 17, 18, 19, then maybe she just needs a friend instead of a lover. Its too early to commit to another.
If you are older then maybe you have given this person too much of your life and time, and its time for you to be strong and move on.
If you have only pined from a distance for 5 years, then hell, be careful you don't get mistaken for a stalker.
If you have had a good friendship that length of time then just work on that first, good freindships lead to good relationships.
In the end you can't "do" anything. its up to the girl to decide that you are her apha male, and she wants to be with you.
She may like you as a friends but if you just don't pop her clogs, then you arn't her mate material.
In that case apart from begging, there is little to do, the relationship will always be one sided. She will always carry the power in the
relationship, and you will aquess, and be considered by her and by yourself that you are only second grade goods. Thats not good, you don't want to
be there more than you want to be with her.