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originally posted by: CornishCeltGuy
a reply to: TinySickTears
It seems more chilled here for sure.
When my son was 15 he got caught with cannabis because he was the stupid twit carrying the bong at the beach one night. The police just confiscated it (for themselves probably) and took him home so his mother would give him a roasting lol, no official caution, no record etc.
His wild youth days never harmed him, he's more successful than me these days, certainly earning more money than me.
originally posted by: CornishCeltGuy
a reply to: Irishhaf
Sounds like a good plan
Wrapping up in cotton wool is the worst thing I think any parent can do, and being so strict that your youngster is too scared to tell you stuff is also a fail. I was good cop and my son's mother was bad cop, he'd tell me everything, and I'd sugar coat it when I told his mother, and chilled her out. It was great teamwork, she knew it was the best way for us all to work together as a family.
originally posted by: TinySickTears
a reply to: CornishCeltGuy
thanks man.
i just do the best i can
far from perfect. make my mistakes.
i just treat my daughter how i want to be treated. if she asks me a question i answer her truthfully
i dont want to lie to her and i want her to trust me.
she knows already that if i tell her a thing then whatever i told her is how it is.