a reply to: CaptainHook
Oh my dear, the grass is always greener on the other side.
You know we guy's have hormones as well, they control our thought's, implant desires which are not rational into our psyche, make otherwise happy
single guy's go crazy every time a fertile female walks past and we have fluid's as well but in our case we have to get rid of them every now and then
(so long as we are not impotent) or else our sex drive becomes ever more strongly in control of our mental state.
But hey everyone is different and what you are going through is quite normal for both young guy's and young woman and how many time's have I
overheard young lady's - and not so young talk about wanting to be a guy, I even had a friend whom when I was a completely innocent young man had the
shoe on the other foot and was talking about how unfair it was that woman had clothes and makeup etc, I did not get it at the time as I was so
completely unworldy but though I lost contact with this former friend because of a family betrayal and not because of his persuasion I later
understood he was a bi-sexual and I had not understood this was actually a come on, I am fully hetero myself and at the time I was a bit of a bible
basher so it is just as well that I did not understand him at the time.
So listen, look in a mirror and think of all the other people that wish they could escape from themselves or there own personal circumstances, the
lonely etc. and then think on the good thing's you have or can have and how lucky compared to some of them you are and chin up it is never that bad
The grass is seldom greener on the other side.
We guy's almost universally pick our noses (Alright I do so maybe not all guy's and definitely not in company)
Scratch our butt's and crotches and find it hilarious when we drop a silent stinker in an elevator, not just because it is embarrassing but because
if the elevator is crowded we can play the innocent party and he poor old guy get's the blame.
Watch boring sport for hours and not because we fancy the players (ok some do but that would have to be woman's tennis for me and I have thankfully
outgrown that stage well over twenty years ago) but for something to talk about with other guy's.
Live shorter lives on average.
Feel like we have to prove ourselves constantly - it's a male thing and all about animal status so being a male is especially when you are young a
constant competition especially since primeval level's of our psyche link this to the approval of female's etc.
Have aggression we sometimes have to battle to keep from making us into thug's or suffer the aggression of other male's if we seem weak enough that
they feel empowered, some love to fight and dominating other's make them feel powerful and vigorous as well as safe - steer clear of guy's like that
they are not worth spitting on believe me they are merely walking excrement disguised as men.
I could go on and on and on.
And believe me kid there are countless guy's that wish they were in your shoe's, not because they are gay or even because they are messed up but
because they are miserable with whom they are themselves, lonely, repressed and wonder what you feel because it is a mystery and they take the wonder
of there own form for granted so have forgotten to be thankful for it.
Also to be frank we guy's are just butt ugly for the most part, we are not geared to be pretty in general.
We smell bad too and have far less personal hygene than woman, we eat and eat and eat (often meat hence the stinky breath) and often you see a fat
guy then you are looking at a sad guy whom has sought succor in food for a broken heart, not always but often that is actually the case.
You are blessed to be whom you are remember that, you are unique, special and above all YOU, to be them you would lose YOU and that is never worth it
And believe me kid we get mood swing's as well.
edit on 30-11-2017 by LABTECH767 because: (no reason given)