posted on Oct, 11 2017 @ 11:00 AM
originally posted by: Liquesence
a reply to: EternalShadow
So, a question for my personal curiosity that I don't think has been asked:
This girl, the ex that you have dreams about, when you first met her was it an instant moment of recognition and desire, the "this is the one/love at
first sight sort," or was it something that took time develop as friends first?
To answer your question, I would like to put some meat on the bone for your inquiry.
I had just moved back to California from out of state and my sisters' new husband offered me a job at an upscale sports bar in Pleasanton, Ca. as a
bouncer/security. With my military background, I was a shoe in. She was a bartender/server and we did have a knockout moment as soon as we saw each
other. A lingering eye to eye contact and smile with an equally lingering hand shake when I first met her.
She was beautiful, Spanish and Italian heritage and very outgoing but reserved and elegant at the same time. She was a model for Vogue Magazine at one
point, but didn't like the industry at the time and moved on.
I was staying with my other sister at first to get on my feet, and one morning she (being my lost love) and a her roommate showed up at my sisters'
house picked me up, and lets just say the next morning, lol, we went back to my sisters' house and gathered my things and I never looked back. She had
me move in immediately! Lol.
Our relationship bloomed....absolutely bloomed. We were the bells of the ball everywhere we went. People who saw us would remark how much they could
see the love we shared. No one tested us, or even tried to break us up over envy, or jealousy. Our armor was too thick. This only made our bond that
much stronger and reassuring.
So to answer your question more directly, yes! I have never, and still haven't, had someone I was so in tune with...someone who really liked me...my
humor, my personality, even my faults were forgivable as they were merely just another facet of myself that she recognized and helped me to
edit on E31America/ChicagoWed, 11 Oct 2017 11:03:34 -050010amWednesdayth11am by EternalShadow because: correction