posted on May, 5 2017 @ 10:12 AM
Even if you make the wrong choice, family usually forgives.
In your position, id help my mother.
We are alike in the fact of the large debts our brothers habe racked up. Your brother doesnt sound like a bad guy, hes just in a bad situation. My
brother makes his bad situations. CONSTANTLY. Thats another topic though.
You can only help someone so much, before you have to step aside and let them help themselves. They may get mad at you. They may temporarily hate you.
But in the end, they will become more self-reliant.
Good luck with everything.