It looks like you're using an Ad Blocker.
Please white-list or disable AboveTopSecret.com in your ad-blocking tool.
Thank you.
Some features of ATS will be disabled while you continue to use an ad-blocker.
Since we're both single, can I convince her that my rationale for not having a child has changed?
originally posted by: thekaboose
No no no no no no no no no no no.
Sorry, personal opinion now from experience:
Dont let them play you for a fool after they dump you
originally posted by: Dem0nc1eaner
Starting a family is the single best thing you can do with your life my friend.
Of course it is hard, of course the world is a sh!t place to bring a kid, but it's the only world we've got and we can only hope to change it by raising responsible children.
All the cr@p they foist on us is to stop us from raising strong families in strong communities, don't let them win!
originally posted by: Pandaram
Stop planning things.. go with the flow.. do stupid things, take risks and face problams. you only live for 5 or 6 decades. And thats gone befor you paying attention to it.
originally posted by: Profusion
originally posted by: thekaboose
No no no no no no no no no no no.
Sorry, personal opinion now from experience:
Dont let them play you for a fool after they dump you
I dumped her, and she told me it broke her heart. She is unique, and I'm still in love with her. I'm not going to post specifics about her personality, age, body, etc., but it's all about the best I could hope for.
originally posted by: Profusion
The main reason I broke up with her was because I thought she had to have a child, and I can't bring a child into this world with how messed up it is.
She could have accepted marrying me and not having a child if I would have had an 'acceptable' rationale for my view. If I would have said that my reason for not having a child was because it was too difficult, we could have stayed together.