posted on Jan, 28 2005 @ 08:44 AM
How would you people feel if you recently found out that your girlfriend is bisexual and she doesnt know you know??
Make sure she knows you know, and then see if she wants to bring a friend....
How hard is that?
Seriously though...The suggestion of asking her how she'd feel about you "experimenting" with another girl might get her to realize your viewpoint.
In my experience, most girls who want to experiment just want that...to try it out...they don't want to lose the security of the relationship they
have. Usually in this case, a three-way would probably be the best solution, that way all is consentual and nobody is being "cheated" on, but if
that isn't your thing, and she still wants to try it....maybe she just doesn't care as much about you as you do her... The sad truth maybe, but you
have to realize that if she wants to try it on her own. then that is likely the case...
PS-My wife is Bi, so I get where you're coming from. She'd never cheat on me, nor I her, but if the right circumstance occurs, and she has a gal
join in that we both approve of, hey, nice to know that possibility is there, hehe... Not in a relationship sense, but just a night of fun now and
[edit on 28-1-2005 by Gazrok]