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IN the United States today, thousands of children under 18 have recently taken marital vows — mostly girls married to adult men, often with approval from local judges. In at least one case, a 10-year-old boy was legally married.
How is this possible? The minimum marriage age in most states is 18, but every state allows exceptions under which children under age 18 can wed.
The first common exception is for children marrying with “parental consent.” Most states allow children age 16 or 17 to marry if their parents sign the marriage license application.
Of course, one person’s “parental consent” can be another’s “parental coercion,” but state laws typically do not call for anyone to investigate whether a child is marrying willingly. Even in the case of a girl’s sobbing openly while her parents sign the application and force her into marriage, the clerk usually has no authority to intervene. In fact, in most states there are no laws that specifically forbid forced marriage.
The second common marriage-age exception is for children marrying with judicial approval. This exception lowers the marriage age below 16 in many states, and many states do not specify a minimum age. Judges in those states can allow the marriage even of an elementary school student.
But judges would never do that, right?
Unchained at Last, a nonprofit I founded to help women escape from arranged, forced marriages, recently retrieved health department data on the ages of people married in New Jersey, where 16- and 17-year-olds may wed with parental consent, and children under 15 may marry with judicial approval.
Unfortunately, the available records do not include any identifying details about marriages beyond the ages of the participants. Nevertheless, the data show that 3,499 children were married in New Jersey between 1995 and 2012. Most were age 16 or 17 and married with parental consent, but 178 were between ages 10 and 15, meaning a judge approved their marriages.
Shockingly, 91 percent of the children were married to adults, often at ages or with age differences that could have triggered statutory-rape charges, not a marriage license. A judge in 2006 approved the marriage of a 10-year-old boy to an 18-year-old woman. A judge in 1996 allowed a 12-year-old girl to marry a 25-year-old man.
Source: www.nytimes.com...
Data after 2010 excludes New York City, where statistics are kept separately. Still, the state data show that in 2011 alone, a 14-year-old married a 26-year-old, a 15-year-old was wed to a 28-year-old, another 15-year-old was wed to a 25-year-old and a 15-year-old married someone age “35 to 39.” All of those marriages were approved by New York judges
originally posted by: redhorse
a reply to: SuperFrog
I was pregnant at sixteen and married a few days after 17. He was 21. I became an emancipated minor to get it done. However, my folks did not exactly approve at first but they agreed eventually. I think at that point, they were just as happy to have me out of the house and were worried about what the neighbors would think either way. He became physically, verbally and emotionally abusive after the wedding. I was too young, but... My parents house was physically, verbally and emotionally abusive too so sometimes you take your chances to get out. In my case, I escaped from one Hell into a worse one.
originally posted by: uncommitted
a reply to: SuperFrog
You thought this didn't happen in America? I can only assume that's because you have never considered it, it's fairly much a given that a lot of states (from my understanding particularly in the South) allow this. Sheesh, Jerry Lee Lewis married his underage cousin back in the '50's so it's not like there is no previous form on this.
A judge in 2006 approved the marriage of a 10-year-old boy to an 18-year-old woman.
originally posted by: deadeyedick
What is the problem?
originally posted by: deadeyedick
a reply to: uncommitted
I mean really should we go out today and lock up every 18 yo. that is having sex with a minor?
Still, the state data show that in 2011 alone, a 14-year-old married a 26-year-old, a 15-year-old was wed to a 28-year-old, another 15-year-old was wed to a 25-year-old and a 15-year-old married someone age “35 to 39.” All of those marriages were approved by New York judges