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You seem to want to believe that people like me don't exist, that we should sleep on it and that will make it better. Do you not see that there are many people who are having problems of interaction because they find their way of being is at odds with the society in which they live?
originally posted by: Krazysh0t
a reply to: Revolution9
You may need to see a psychiatrist. I see TONS of people all the time expressing their individuality. Or, you may just be getting old. There's always that too... How do you feel about dubstep? Have you even heard of it?
originally posted by: seeker1963
a reply to: Revolution9
You seem to want to believe that people like me don't exist, that we should sleep on it and that will make it better. Do you not see that there are many people who are having problems of interaction because they find their way of being is at odds with the society in which they live?
Your words eloquently describe how I feel without insulting anyone!
What is sad is the "system" has it's own special branch of "emotional enforcement" called Psychiatry. Those like us who choose to bury ourselves under a rock, refusing to join the herd mentality of today's mad society and rules WILL and ARE being labeled as having "anti social behavioral problems", "severe depression" etc etc....
Just pay attention to how much "Mental Health" is being brought up in the MSM in our current atmosphere of "living in fear". Meanwhile just as in the VA system which has been known to be inadequate in caring for injured veterans for almost half a century, but the nothing is done to improve it except for recycling the outrage every 5 or 6 years, such is our mental health system and it's use of drugs to help people "comply".
Nice rant!
originally posted by: Boadicea
a reply to: Revolution9
I get everything you're saying and of course I don't like it because I don't want it to be!
But I don't exactly disagree... it's not untrue but it's not the whole truth! I do believe more and more people are putting up their own cloaking device in public and with certain people to protect themselves. And for damn good reason!!!
And if we can see that much, we can also see beyond that if you look inside and open your heart to the inherent beauty of everyone...
In your own life, do you not express different parts of yourself with different people and different situations? Do you not keep private certain things from certain others? Do you cry your heart out to cashiers... tellers... strangers on the street? Of course not. You don't show your all your color to everyone... but all your colors are always a part of you.
How do we create a world that encourages and allows people to show their colors? First, by not being part of society that makes them feel threatened, under attack, and therefore not want to show their colors. More and more every day we are attacking people for expressing themselves. Of course people are withdrawing, and expressing themselves less and less in society and more and more in private. But we all still have our colors in all their glory!!!
You acknowledged a few doing creative things... I suggest that most are doing creative, productive and proactive things for someone or something... or we all would have imploded long ago. No one can be something to/for everyone... but everyone can be something for someone. That woman in front of you at the grocery store may have appeared apathetic and disengaged with the world around her, but you don't see the love and laughter and joy she gives the kids when she's volunteering at school. That guy at the office may seem like a cold and distant jerk, but you don't see him when he's giving abused and abandoned animals the love and affection they need at the animal shelter where he volunteers.
You see no colors, so you dismiss others as having no colors, and you effectively walk away.... never looking deeper, never giving people a reason or a chance to show their colors. If this lack of colors disturbs you -- and it obviously does, or you would not have felt strongly enough about it to make a rant -- then you have to first understand that the problem is not that people have lost their colors, but that we as a society have made it too difficult and painful for people to show their colors. Then ask yourself what you can do to change that, what you need to change in yourself, and make it happen.
P.S. Thank you for the poems. I especially enjoyed the first one.
originally posted by: crayzeed
a reply to: Boadicea
I have never read a more succinct, truthful answer. Though you talk in philosophical terms, I see it in black and white.
Through the continuous drip, drip of alienating people (by devious and underhanded psychology) to keep people divided to control them easier they have been alienating the individual soul.
No matter what other people say humans ARE herd animal. WE NEED other human contact and I see it as counter-inteligent to say " don't be part of the herd" "be individual", therefore alienating yourself from human contact.
You can still be yourself and be part of the herd.
The very worst places you can find yourself in is any city. They are the loneliest places in the world. There are a lot of reasons for this ,but the primary reason is if you try to inter-act ie. talk to someone they automatically think 1. your deranged or 2. your after something. This is the mistrust the people in power like because you are doing their job for them.
What can I say to the poster but search and find some group (could be a church group, though I'm not advocating religion) just a interactive, friendly group to give them a moral boost that not all mankind is------I cannot think of a word to describe all the lonely people that want to speak but are scared.