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originally posted by: caladonea
a reply to: nonspecific
I personally like the way you handled the situations you mentioned...you have a wonderful inner strength.
originally posted by: kaylaluv
I don't know if you took being a good person too far or not, but it sounds like something Jesus would have done, so you're only broken if you think Jesus was broken.
originally posted by: incoserv
a reply to: nonspecific
I can understand not wanting you friend to go to jail, but I hope you considered whether that really was a one of thing. If that was a character issue for they person - of he has outbursts like that - and ends up hurting someone worse or killing someone, then you will have made a major mistake.
As to your tools, as much as I believe in being forgiving and turning the other cheek, I'd say you are wrong. Maybe the person who took your tools was in need, but now you are in need. They didn't consider you. That person is selfish, thoughtless, abusive and will continue to be so. You ultimately do no one a favor by overlooking their crime.
If you know who took them and can prove it I say call the cops!
originally posted by: grainofsand
a reply to: nonspecific
Hmm, I'd probably be the same with the mate situation as I involve the police in my life as little as I can. The only difference is I'd have gone to the hospital and blatantly lied to the police that I fell and they will have no chance of a conviction against my mate.
The tool thief in your other thread though, nah, you're a better man than me.
I would take a course of action to discourage the thief from ever stealing from me again, and I wouldn't call the police either. A smack-head stole off my mates Nan a couple of years ago, no police were called, and the guy had a much harsher lesson than a £100 court fine paid off at a fiver a week.
I am sat here now and I know who took my tools and cannot bring myself to inform the police as I know they will definatley go to jail because of this.
originally posted by: DAVID64
a reply to: nonspecific
I am sat here now and I know who took my tools and cannot bring myself to inform the police as I know they will definatley go to jail because of this.
Is this a very needy person? As in, they or their family are going to go hungry if they didn't steal the tools? Because honestly, if that's not the case, they need a lesson. Allowing someone to steal is not really helping them [ unless it's an extreme case like I mentioned ] it's just encouraging them to keep doing it, thinking they will always get away with it. What happens when they figure they can just steal from you any time they like, knowing you won't report it? Can you afford to keep replacing what they take?
originally posted by: Skid Mark
a reply to: nonspecific
If you spent some one on one time with me I'm sure I'd piss you off in one way or another. It happens. With me though you'd have a good laugh while being pissed, and be angry that I made you laugh, too. That happens as well.
originally posted by: TrueBrit
a reply to: nonspecific
The person about whom you are speaking will not learn anything worth knowing by your silence. It is only coming face to face with consequence, which educates a person on the importance of making ones own way, and owning ones history, rather than being owned by it.
originally posted by: eisegesis
Why don't you just confront him and tell him you know? Ask to have them returned and all we be forgiven or he will have to face the consequences of dealing with the police. Whats the worst that could happen?
Or...
You could hire some muscle to shake things up.