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LOVE forms. If possible share your perceptions of LOVE for a ALIEN/INTER-DIMENSIONAL visitor.

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posted on Apr, 13 2015 @ 04:08 AM
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LOVE and forms of it…

Love can come in various forms. Forms such as:
LOVE for your family-
LOVE for you friends-
LOVE for others unlike you-
LOVE for a companion-

*LOVE for your family is somewhat simple to understand. It is basically loving those you view as family… It can however get confusing depending on your perceptions of reality. For example 1 does my best to love ALL* CREATOR Creations. But I am aware that there is potential FAMILY OF CREATION who are DARK in conscious and prefer not to be loved. So in a odd way to show them respect & distance space is given. Although in a way LOVE is being emitted out of respect
still…

But its understood ALL* are not created the same nor think the same even if the essence of the CREATOR is found in all Created one way or another.

So that part of the FAMILY of CREATION has their WILL honored by 1 not reflecting too much if any LOVE LIGHT in their direction… But WE all know how family can be



*LOVE of friends is basically caring for the welfare and survival of those you view as friends. Even if those friends upset you a little at times or do not agree with your personal views at times. The LOVE for them remains intact however because of whatever interactions and or activities that you and your friends experienced that have established a close bond between your friends and you. Some experiences may of been harsh to overcome but since you persevered together through them your friendship has been tested and passed as well as strengthened…

LOVE for friends is a good LOVE as it allows many who are FAMILY IN CREATION primarily
the opportunity to get to know each other better as more of the Created become more AWARE of each other.
This works for schools competing in sports to the pro sport teams playing against each other to religious groups of different faiths working together to different ethnic groups helping each other out as a species and can even go beyond to AWARE terrestrials encountering and interacting with AWARE extraterrestrials.

So again to 1 friendship love is a important and a good love as is family love…


*LOVE for others unlike you can be associated with LOVE for pets and other CREATOR Creations that may appear to be less AWARE of the reality MATRIX then you. It can include for example Humans standing up for animal rights or Humans standing up for the rights of other humans from different races, faiths. BEYOND the reality MATRIX it could include NON HUMANS standing up for the rights of HUMANS. In some secretive type of STAR WARS WAY


LOVE for others unlike you to 1 shows strong SOUL/SPIRIT/INTERNAL ENERGY Integrity for you have learned to LOVE outside the norms or the usual perception programming…


*And LOVE for companion

LOVE for Companion to 1 can be a beautiful experience when the hormonal chemistry between companions is balanced and levels of respect are established after time together. When that balance is found between those companions who find love and then fall in love with each other the experience can be a heartwarming, appreciated, respectful and trustworthy. This is established by the companions as they treat each other with LOVE that is embraced with trust and respect and BELIEF for belief in each other is also important for the LOVE to flow properly as well.

However when what is thought to be love between companions but may really only be lust or an infatuation or an attachment for pleasure or gifts is unbalanced many problems and sadness and doubt in love can stir and develop. This is when what the companions thought was LOVE can hurt because of disrespect, distrust, doubt and deception. And at those times the companion must reassess if that companion they fell in love with was really the right person for them. And after a reasonable assessment a decision can be made to continue to peruse what hurts you or let it go and recognize its not love and search elsewhere for true companionship love for you…

1 feels LOVE for Companion can be a beautiful love to experience and obtain. 1 just recommends that patience and respect as well as trust are fully evaluated and compatible between companions before accepting its LOVE for a companion found in the reality MATRIX…

Thank you for your time for those who got to read the recent threads. Hopefully 1 left a gem or two for you to help LIGHT* your way


NAMASTE*******




posted on Apr, 13 2015 @ 04:40 AM
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Love is ultimately a feeling of attachment, a desire for preservation. Basically love started as a survival instinct. Self-love is a thing and I doubt it fits your description. Later, love extended it's scope to: the sexual partner, the progeny, the extended family, the clan, etc...


A greater love is empathy and the ability to expand your consciousness to include more than just yourself.



posted on Apr, 13 2015 @ 05:15 AM
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Although I am an inherently loving person, it is almost the type of loving/affectionate type of personality that is boyish and very sensitive, so I have always repressed all forms of expressing intimacy, almost as a type of homophobia. It's not very healthy to hold back on giving and receiving love.

Nonetheless, there are other forms of platonic love that can be expressed - particularly that of hugging or holding a pet. I think humans love their pets more than they love each other! Because animals don't speak words and hence are non-judgmental and unconditional in their love for you.

Other types of love that can come about from a type of repression of intimate love can come about in what is called in psychological jargon 'sublimation'. If you are unable to show the love you have inside for somebody, you can sublimate by buying them really nice stuff or giving them other types of attention etc. There are endless varieties of sublimation.

I am interested in the biochemical aspects of love and lust in the brain and body. I have a few volumes of the work of Dr. Wilhelm Reich, but I would like to learn more about what he uncovered with his pioneering sex/love research back in the good old days. What he called orgone could very likely be connected to neurotransmitters and hormones that he did not know enough about back then. The primary hormone involved with love, bonding, forming trust, the birth process, as well as reaching its maximum secretion at the height of orgasm, is called 'oxytocin'. There is a lot of exciting new research being done on its effects. Synthetic oxytocin even shows promise with severe autistic people, who have always had a type of social and emotional detachment which seems to indicate a deficit in this bonding hormone.

Dimethyltryptamine has been considered 'The Spirit Molecule', released in the pineal gland, and Dr. Rick Strassman said that his patients who were given this compound intravenously also had a very dramatic spike in vasopressin, which is closely related to oxytocin. Recent work by Dr. Paul Zac in his book 'The Moral Molecule' reveal the various social implications of oxytocin as it relates to love, trust, morality and ethics.
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posted on Apr, 13 2015 @ 05:06 PM
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a reply to: Ophiuchus 13


LOVE for others unlike you to 1 shows strong SOUL/SPIRIT/INTERNAL ENERGY Integrity for you have learned to LOVE outside the norms or the usual perception programming…


I know a lot of people like to hate on Greer, and that is okay, but your post also reminded me of this meditation for ET contact. I whipped up this video a couple years ago. Some may find it useful for practicing love for all sentient life - including aliens/inter-dimensional beings...




posted on Apr, 13 2015 @ 09:04 PM
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a reply to: Ophiuchus 13
Always good to see a thread on love. You mention various kinds of love between one another, and there is also the love that is inherent and prior to all these forms that we perceive.

The prior unity that we all arise in, and are modifications of, is conscious love, light, energy, and is the "medium" in which all forms arise.

We are connected in a vast field of apparently infinite relationship, and inherently not separate. We humans tend to think we are independent entities, separate from everyone else, but in reality, we are completely dependent on the field of modified light-energy we all arise in.

Those that recognize this can be filled with the inherent conscious light-energy-love that we all arise in, but most of us tend to block this reality from our feeling awareness due to wanting to have a sense of independence and separation.

Hopefully, some day soon we will all learn this and live cooperatively much more - then there will be true peace.

Thanks for the thread.


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posted on Apr, 14 2015 @ 07:15 AM
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When you feel pain it is a kind of energy that is focused on the damaged area, love is a vacuous energy that absorbs pain and usually the fear associated with it.

Generally, it only works with more than one individual.

When it comes to attachment you can say that you "love" chocolate and that is a feeling of enjoyment, but you don't really care about the chocolate itself - real love is something that has to be proven through actions, not just the experience of a feeling.

To prove love and foster it, you must perform selfless acts, and you have to genuinely care about others.

The opportunities we have to develop a "heart" present themselves when others are suffering because we wish for them to be happy.

Although, theoretically, in the unlikely event when everyone is happy, there would no need to be selfless.

It is an ironic fact.
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posted on Apr, 14 2015 @ 07:45 AM
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a reply to: Ophiuchus 13

It is always nice to see these universal truths being stated and brought to bear for many reasons as you mention, and perhaps as a call to arms for those who will choose Love and peace over the call to arms for hatred and judgement of others not conforming to programming.
Love each other seems to usually work except for our current world leaders who are almost all on the payroll to do the bidding of those with great wealth and power and military strength. (the worlds intelligence agaencies most all follow a script which is rarely made up with any love within it.

Mankind doesn't need to do this so that ET's will accept us or leave us alone, but rather to conquer the corruption that permeates the planet like a cancer that is fast becoming terminal.


Most of the ET's that I have heard of do not possess love or kindness themselves and are usually void of any emotion. They do seem to understand why nuclear weapons are prerequisites for a failed society however.

Lately I have felt a battle waging within my own soul against love and I can see that this is done by an evil force that has multitudes of hidden creatures who hate the human race and have infiltrated by using mankind's own vanity and pride against us so that we "compete" to the point of destroying others, conquering us by dividing us. And by destroying the foundations of family by any and all means.

Discarding all things in favor of utilizing love instead could be a real winner for ones own self, but I'm not so sure about the whole planet.
Just do what you can when you can, and give a little love instead of using hate.

Love is the best weapon against the forces of hatred. And the forces of hate really hate that



posted on Apr, 15 2015 @ 02:24 AM
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a reply to: Ophiuchus 13

There's a difference between love of relationships(which comes in MANY forms, such as family, friends, and companions), and Divine Love (which is only ONE - because it is Perfect Love).

Divine Love is when a person, gives and helps others willingly.

Divine Love is not forced. It is the choice for a person to give to others without expecting a return that makes it Divinely Pure.

Divine Love is Compassion and Asistance. It is Divine Love which leads to peace, freedom, and fulfillment. The cultivation of Divine Love causes a person to be kind, generous, and forgiving.



posted on Apr, 15 2015 @ 05:08 PM
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originally posted by: JUhrman

A greater love is empathy and the ability to expand your consciousness to include more than just yourself.



Yes 1 agrees
for having the ability to understand the feelings experienced by others is to 1 a compassionate way to begin to understand what inflicts pain or harm on others and what generates support and hope for others. It also allows the opportunity to get to know others...


originally posted by: corsair00
It's not very healthy to hold back on giving and receiving love.


1 agrees corsair00 it can not be a healthy way to exist potentially, especially if you are a being that has developed and grown with LOVE energy around you and then deny receiving and giving it.
On the other hand if you are a being that grew and developed in a realm of existence in lack of LOVE perhaps then not giving or receiving Love would be a understandable approach...


originally posted by: corsair00
Nonetheless, there are other forms of platonic love that can be expressed - particularly that of hugging or holding a pet. I think humans love their pets more than they love each other! Because animals don't speak words and hence are non-judgmental and unconditional in their love for you.


Yes, platonic love 1 feels comes into perspective more when dealing with LOVE of others unlike yourself which indeed can be associated with love for pets. Or human love for whales and other animals being killed.
Further out of box, it platonic love could be associated with the LOVE from another CREATOR Creation for another CREATOR Creation ALIEN to them... Where as with a human petting or hugging may be the form of direct contact their form of contact may be mental, physical and or conscious supporting and maybe genetic & technical upgrading from a distance. Eventually comforting the contacted in the long or short term as the pet is comforted by its owner through means of petting-hugging-feeding and health support...


originally posted by: corsair00
Other types of love that can come about from a type of repression of intimate love can come about in what is called in psychological jargon 'sublimation'. If you are unable to show the love you have inside for somebody, you can sublimate by buying them really nice stuff or giving them other types of attention etc. There are endless varieties of sublimation.


Yes 1 has observed forms of sublimation from moderate to extreme types and at times wonder does this leave the individual still in LACK of LOVE due to trying to appease another with sublimation who may be unhappy with them in some way?
Or is that person suffering from a hidden form of depression that they do not even care that Love is not transmitted from the individual they are attempting to sublimate more so then is attachment generated to the benefits provided? Giving gifts and sharing benefits with the one you love to make them smile or happy to 1 is ok, but if your doing it to keep the attraction of someones interest who is not interested in you in the same way @ times 1 feels that can become a problem for those who practice this behavior...



posted on Apr, 15 2015 @ 05:09 PM
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originally posted by: bb23108
a reply to: Ophiuchus 13
Always good to see a thread on love. You mention various kinds of love between one another, and there is also the love that is inherent and prior to all these forms that we perceive.

The prior unity that we all arise in, and are modifications of, is conscious love, light, energy, and is the "medium" in which all forms arise.


Yes 1 agrees bb23108 this would be in 1z perceptions the COLLECTIVE CREATOR or SOURCE Essence associated with ALL* Created who make up the WHOLE. Possibly embedded within all aware and unaware to unlock and awaken within, the more conscious a CREATOR Creation becomes.

So for example like less aware wild animals of EA*RTH feed and behave, a aware more advanced conscious being like some humans perhaps could-would behave more intelligently and be conscious of their feeding actions and environmental behaviors upon others less aware.


originally posted by: bb23108
We are connected in a vast field of apparently infinite relationship, and inherently not separate. We humans tend to think we are independent entities, separate from everyone else, but in reality, we are completely dependent on the field of modified light-energy we all arise in.

Those that recognize this can be filled with the inherent conscious light-energy-love that we all arise in, but most of us tend to block this reality from our feeling awareness due to wanting to have a sense of independence and separation.

Hopefully, some day soon we will all learn this and live cooperatively much more - then there will be true peace.

Thanks for the thread.



Accepted
bb23108 that yes we are 1 even if some of the Family of CREATION at times feel they are separate at times due to ego feeling more relevant then others or ignorance feeling the only Created relevant to the CREATOR.
The hope is eventually "WE" can ALL* mature as a FAMILY of the CREATED and work as one for the better of the WHOLE*. 1 remains optimistic and patient bb23108... Thank you for adding your conscious input into the thread, 1 is happy you enjoyed




originally posted by: SystemResistor
When you feel pain it is a kind of energy that is focused on the damaged area, love is a vacuous energy that absorbs pain and usually the fear associated with it.

Generally, it only works with more than one individual.


nice description of how LOVE can support areas of pain as well as stress. And yes 1 feels it works more when more then one individual is involved.
Your subjective analysis of LOVE is accepted SystemResistor...


originally posted by: SystemResistor
When it comes to attachment you can say that you "love" chocolate and that is a feeling of enjoyment, but you don't really care about the chocolate itself - real love is something that has to be proven through actions, not just the experience of a feeling.

Accepted



originally posted by: SystemResistor
To prove love and foster it, you must perform selfless acts, and you have to genuinely care about others.

The opportunities we have to develop a "heart" present themselves when others are suffering because we wish for them to be happy.



Thank you for your logical assessment and description on LOVE SystemResistor
you covered some valid and important points to 1.



posted on Apr, 15 2015 @ 05:12 PM
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originally posted by: NoCorruptionAllowed
a reply to: Ophiuchus 13

It is always nice to see these universal truths being stated and brought to bear for many reasons as you mention, and perhaps as a call to arms for those who will choose Love and peace over the call to arms for hatred and judgement of others not conforming to programming.


1 is happy you enjoyed the read NoCorruptionAllowed. At times 1 tries to share some benevolent Frequency based vibrations to try and send some sparks into the conscious minds, minds which may have the ability to affect many other minds as it does appear some are more collecting into groups globally that appear to be hatred-control frequency based. If many sparks are emitted from various sources then the HOPE is like a domino effect many dim shall become BRIGHTER in conscious. Before darkness grows too much physically on EA*RTH and LIGHT is required to support physically those attacked by the physical darkness.


originally posted by: NoCorruptionAllowed
Mankind doesn't need to do this so that ET's will accept us or leave us alone, but rather to conquer the corruption that permeates the planet like a cancer that is fast becoming terminal.


Agreed
it is a form of species maturity to progress beyond the MANY species self hatred acts performed here on EA*RTH. And maybe as humans mature the Family of Creation will more welcome the HUMAN species due to humanity showing them how intelligently and mature we
can act. 1 is optimist for this also for humanity...


originally posted by: NoCorruptionAllowed
Most of the ET's that I have heard of do not possess love or kindness themselves and are usually void of any emotion. They do seem to understand why nuclear weapons are prerequisites for a failed society however.


Yes detected as well. But the more that is detected from them it appears they are more logic based then emotion and perhaps that is how some of them were born and developed. And so when they see emotion it may confuse them, slightly especially when there are situations like crusades observed and evaluated. Which where basically wars for a LOVING GOD that involved the death of many who did not conform to the ideologies of those who felt their GOD was the god to follow. To 1 this shows lack of love present so for an extraterrestrial 1 can imagine how illogical the observations can be from those crusade like events.

Still though 1 does not dislike or hate those types of CREATOR Creations for being grown and or developed if not spawned that way for that is how they were Created IN THE KINGDOMS THEY COME FROM. And perhaps this is reason why some distances are placed between different CREATOR Creation Energy Groups (CCEG) to ensure room for growth for different kinds of CREATOR energy so that they wont destroy one another why they are still somewhat unaware of the WHOLE* of which ALL* including them make up...

I do however at times struggle with accepting the feeding habits and activities of some...


originally posted by: NoCorruptionAllowed
Lately I have felt a battle waging within my own soul against love and I can see that this is done by an evil force that has multitudes of hidden creatures who hate the human race and have infiltrated by using mankind's own vanity and pride against us so that we "compete" to the point of destroying others, conquering us by dividing us. And by destroying the foundations of family by any and all means.


NoCorruptionAllowed, you are not alone in this struggle...
1 is not sure if these attacks are located in certain regions of existence a CREATOR Creation soul/spirit/internal energy my find itself to test integrity with temptation. But if they are perhaps they are ASCENSION test and as you overcome them you gain Soul/Spirit/Internal ENERGY integrity to assist you on your journeys throughout Existence as you learn to maneuver more and respond... to more metaphysical like attacks.

So 1z advice is do not let those attacks from that perceived evil force of creatures get your frequency down. Try your best to recommend their presence near you to no longer remain and if the energy remains began to train your self on spiritual levels to respond to spiritual attacks and also physical...

Good Luck, and thanks for your contributions to the OP on the perceptions of LOVE NocorruptionAllowed...

a reply to: arpgme

Your subjective analysis of LOVE perception as DIVINE LOVE is accepted arpgme. It appears that it would also assist in the progression of a CREATOR Creation Energy Groups (CCEG) development and survival. As it would help to keep peace frequencies present and resonating within many which could further prevent WARS which can further degrade a Inhabited region...

LOVE should not be a force it should to 1 be a accessible constant within the reality MATRIX for ALL*. Accessible so that even if once totally within boundaries in lack of LOVE some may access LOVE and begin to ascend into regions to be accepted, eventually where the energy of LOVE is present and transmitted through benevolent means of existing.

Thank you for taking time to add your input to the OP arpgme...
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posted on Apr, 15 2015 @ 05:51 PM
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Love for me is an expression of being gentle even when you're really really angry about something.

A kind touch or a hug overriding the urge to lash out from a wounded Ego.

It's being selfless, and putting the well-being of another being or person first.



posted on Apr, 15 2015 @ 09:36 PM
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a reply to: GENERAL EYES

Logical as well as acceptable description of LOVE from your subjective perceptions. It is this type of LOVE that provides patience for others that at times may seem un-deservant of it. Which also reflects from within the potential benevolent integrity associated with those remaining patient with others...

Nice
Thanks for taking time to share for others who may be able to access the local collective.

NAMASTE*******



posted on Apr, 15 2015 @ 11:43 PM
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Yes 1 has observed forms of sublimation from moderate to extreme types and at times wonder does this leave the individual still in LACK of LOVE due to trying to appease another with sublimation who may be unhappy with them in some way?
Or is that person suffering from a hidden form of depression that they do not even care that Love is not transmitted from the individual they are attempting to sublimate more so then is attachment generated to the benefits provided? Giving gifts and sharing benefits with the one you love to make them smile or happy to 1 is ok, but if your doing it to keep the attraction of someones interest who is not interested in you in the same way @ times 1 feels that can become a problem for those who practice this behavior...


I think a lot of times sublimation can be an almost unconscious behavior and response to somebody's inner needs and desires, which often do not match up to the actual reality of the two individuals involved. At its most extreme I'd say that some acts of sublimation are nothing more than an idealistic projection onto somebody of interest that is mostly just based on sexual or romantic fantasy. And sexual and romantic fantasies can fluctuate with time and circumstance.

I often feel sorry for the sublimator. I have seen it time and time again. Either the stereotypical chubby dude who is only ever a girl's good friend, or a gay man that is attracted to a heterosexual man (or worse, much younger man) etc and so on. The "sugar daddy" phenomenon is also a good example of variations of sublimation - although there it is usually understood at the onset of the relationship that it is only for sexual favors. But invariably emotions always arise, as do the endless conflicts.

I don't see human relationships as being enduring in true love as they may have been in the past. Lots of ego and shadow projection. People fall in love with "the idea" of somebody else, and how they want them to match up to their own internal fantasy, and it can actually work for a while, but often times the bond and dynamics between the two will eventually evaporate.

Nonetheless:


even for the Caspers and lonely chubby dudes of the world... LOL
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