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originally posted by: VforVendettea
Lace her food with sugar free gummy bears, she will still be there but she will be too busy with other things to give you a hard time.
originally posted by: Omega85
a reply to: 74Templar
I see what your saying ,
I have allready initiated this type of thing and it is currently in the works .
The thing is , its been in the works for over half a year now .
originally posted by: JamboD
what you should try and do is sit them both down, explain to them how you feel and how its negatively affecting your living environment, tell her shes not doing enough around the house etc and that if things don't change they will have to make other living arrangements,
do this as nicely as possible so she doesn't fly off the handle at her boyfriend (since she has a history of this sort of thing)
DO NOT!!! bring up that you don't agree with the way she treats her bf or how she uses the kid as leverage because that is there relationship and not something you should meddle in, even though you don't agree with it, it's their business and they are the ones who should sort that,
originally posted by: SyxPak
a reply to: Omega85
Wow! Just a thought. When this person is verbally abusive,
do NOT respond in the way in which you probably already know she wants you to.
This will eventually stop her Irritable Vowel Syndrome! She is feeding herself off of your FeedBack!!! She Obviously has some self esteem issues.
Next, exercise Your Grand Parental Rights, and take her to court for custody of that child. So yah, you will have to say the father of this child is unsuitable as well as the Mother, but explain what you are going to do first with the father, so he knows what is going down. Then talk the relative into dumping his garbage, the mother, and moving on with his life. All the while letting him father his child and stay with you until he is on his feet. Then help the father move out into a home of his own. Hopefully the Father will have met another woman and maybe then he can have back his child and enjoy a fairly normal life. Yes there will be custody sharing here with the useless mother, somewhat, unless the courts can see the truth about this woman, and NOT allow visitation EVER!
One more thing, my Wife just mentioned this to me, is it a Fact that the child in question, is actually the relatives?
Is the Father secure in knowing this? Could this wench be using an illegitimate child as a weapon?
I do wish You the Best of Good Luck in this endeavor!!! Syx.