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originally posted by: butcherguy
I was just thinking about this a bit. I wonder how those children of her seven that were truant... I wonder if they have thought about their mother dying in prison because of their actions?
She may have died at home due to natural causes instead, if that is what caused her death, but it very well may have been the stress of being in prison that brought about her demise. They will have the rest of their lives to think about that one.
originally posted by: kaylaluv
a reply to: WeRpeons
Gee, I have never beaten or even spanked my 12 year old, and yet... she has only missed 2 days of school in the last 3 years. She probably hasn't missed more than 6 days altogether since she started Kindergarten.
originally posted by: kaylaluv
a reply to: CranialSponge
Well, fining the parent is teaching him/her the consequences of being a bad parent. If you don't take control of your children, you are punished. It's supposed to give you an incentive to make sure your kids go to school. If this doesn't work to change the parent into a good parent, how do you think making the kid pick up garbage is going to miraculously rehabilitate the kid? It might work for a little while, but they'll just slip back into their old routine because, well kids can be kinda dumb. Parents are supposed to be adults and are supposed to understand consequences a little better.
What the parents need to do is stay on top of those kids like fleas on a dog, to make sure those kids go to school and PREVENT all the truancy. It can be a hard job when you have a kid determined to skip school, but it's doable. It really is up to the parents, though.
originally posted by: CranialSponge
When she was in grade 10, she and her friends decided one day that they wanted to hang out at the mall a little while longer and skipped their first class after lunch break.
originally posted by: kaylaluv
a reply to: Annee
Trackers on phones are awesome. I would only use it if my daughter was someplace where I worry about her safety, OR if she has proven that I can't trust her (she hasn't done anything *yet*).
What if the child doesn't hand in their excuse?
originally posted by: kaylaluv
a reply to: CranialSponge
Yes, but you see, with your kid, it only happened once. You made sure as good parents, that it never happened again. I don't think you get fined for just one truancy, do you? It's when you have several unexcused absences that fines are involved. Several unexcused absences usually means the parents either don't care, or have totally lost control.
I have no problem with the school punishing the kids as well. But we must also hold the parents responsible.
originally posted by: LeatherNLace
originally posted by: alienjuggalo
Are we really having to do time because our kids skip school?
Yes we are and yes we should. Minors are the parent's responsibility, period. I think that this should be expanded to include criminal charges for parents of bullies and ESPECIALLY gun owning parents who have their firearms used in school shootings.