posted on May, 20 2014 @ 04:46 AM
I met a woman in London who I instantly connected with. Unfortunately she lived in Scotland which is some 500 miles away. We kept communicating as
much as possible and when funds permitted we'd see each other.
She is now my wife and we have two wonderful kids.
I wouldn't say having a long distance relationship was easy. We had a few problems mostly down to me being a bit of an arse and going out and getting
drunk and not phoning her. My bad. But she stuck to me. Thank god.
Things to consider.
We used to write each other letters. I know it's old school but it's a lovely way of keeping in touch.
I used to use the cheapest method of transport which was the overnight bus to see her as often as I could. How much would the bus fare be for you.
We used to talk nearly every day on the phone and we did this for nearly 2 years before I moved up.
If she if the one for you then you have to strongly consider either you moving to her or her moving to you. It's a gamble but if you are serious then
it's one you need to take. Life is risk.
edit on 20-5-2014 by cyberheater because: (no reason given)