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I regret staying with an abusive husband.
People told me to get away before this man disfigures or kills you. I was too scared to leave.
He was physically and verbally abusive. I was so stressed out, I believe it caused me to have a major stroke. Or it could be the countless times he smashed me in the head. When I had the stroke, this bastard left me on the floor for two days before calling 911. By the time I got to a hospital I had lost so much oxygen to my brain, I was left severely brain damaged, and paralysed on one side. I can't walk, will never use my arm or hand again. I can stand and trained to finally get into a shower unassisted. Then one of my shower grab bars was installed faulty bc he hired cheap labor. I told him it's coming loose, could shift and cause me to fall. He said STFU Bitch it was fine. Well sure enough it shifted out of place one day and I fell and broke my hip. The day after surgery it was mentioned to him it was the faulty bar that caused my fall, so he dumped me right there in the hospital, he left me.
Finally after more mean things he was doing and saying to me. I got up the courage to file for a divorce.
Why did I not do this before, when I had a chance at a life? Talk about regretting things.
He's super rich and is going to fight me in court and not share his assets. He tricked me with help from the royal bank to put me onto a 640G loan I have no legal way to get out of. There's another loan of 200G he tricked me into as well. My credit has been destroyed. I don't think I will get anything now and I really need it to live as a disabled person. He has done nothing but brag he's in the top 5% income in Canada. He hid his wealth from me. If I do get lots of money he will kill me.
This bastard is very manipulating and donates to hospital charities and they rave about his generosity, what a nice guy he is. He just says "" haha, I only donated to get free advertising. I'm such a wolf in sheeps clothing. I am so good at conning people". He owns a paving company in cranbrook BC.
edit on 13-10-2013 by violet because: (no reason given)
I wouldn't change a thing. I learned from the things that went right and wrong. If I would change a single thing say thirty years ago, it could have changed my reality. I am satisfied with the way things turned out. i made life fun and interesting. Sure I worked hard but I also had a ball spending what I earned. I have kids and grandkids, I couldn't jeopardize not having them around. They are part of my reality.
But I do wonder how my life would turned out if I went to the regional computer programming contest. I knew more than the teacher.
It's good to share
Not telling this girl that I was in love with her.
reply to post by Iwinder
Only 1 thing? Everyone must be younger than I for I have many. I will post three tho I see they have all been posted and seem to be the only kinds posted.
Listening to my husband and studying nursing instead of journalism. To this day I have an obsession to keep plenty of paper and pens...fear of running out...must be a past life thing.
Not getting divorced sooner. But hey, finally did it and that is "A Good Thing".
Starting to smoke again after 30 years not smoking.