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Originally posted by spellbound
reply to post by pai mei
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You say tribal people don't beat their chilldren?
I am telling you that Pacific Islanders beat their children, and so do Maori.
That is why we, here in NZ, have a huge rate of child abuse.
Originally posted by dgtempe
My son is coming back today from a 3 dayrest. And i'm outta here.
I try to help my son, but this is just too much for me.
Thanks for listening.
Originally posted by EyesWideShut
Spank em!!! , Yeah I KNOW that you're not supposed to hit kids. I'm not saying beat your children and abuse them , I'm simply saying the kids need a spankin. I'm 29 and I got spanked as a kid , I wasn't abused and my dad used to always say "This is going to hurt me more than it hurts you" right before he spanked me, I always thought... "BULLS***!" Now I have kids and I understand. They are all different , with my son I can use a tone of voice and use "The Look" and he straightens up , The "count to three" works on him as well as timeouts. The only thing my daughter responded to was spankings when she was little , I never spanked her (that was my wifes job) but now just the threat of the spanking works. If I say "Pow , Pow" she know's what the deal is. The kid's in the OP are still young enough to be fixed. Discipline and love is what they need.
Originally posted by dgtempe
i SAY bless their little hearts because i love them to death, but it is them who want their father dead and also me.
Originally posted by dgtempe
I still say this generation has terrible anger issues from birth.
Originally posted by dgtempe
i turned out just fine
Originally posted by ladyinwaiting
reply to post by loam
Wow, right down to watching the diet. You covered all the bases.
Excellent post. Anybody would do well to use these values/techniques in raising children. IMO.
Originally posted by dgtempe
They have no conscience. We cant slap them, swat them, the only thing is both low voice to see how they respond, and when they dont, i yell and yell and still no response.