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Originally posted by vcwxvwligen
Your sexuality is a gift, so expressing it with pride is vain.
Our society perfers to understand sex on a "good enough" basis, because of a greater appreciation for other, more civil endeavors.
When your sexuality fades, it's like you are confronting a fear of dying. You must adapt or die. Unfortunately, many people cope by finding another person through whom to vicariously maintain such a personal identity. At times, the other person is an unwilling participant. That is insincere, parasitic and, ultimately, abusive.
For about 47.5% of the average person's lifetime (38 out of 80 years total, from age 12 to age 50), he is capable of sexual reproduction. People spend only a very small fraction of this time sexually reproducing. There must be other concerns with which he should occupy his life, like conflict resolution, gathering provisions, contributing to civilized society and meaningful self-expression.
Your sexuality is a gift, so expressing it with pride is vain.
Originally posted by OzWeatherman
Originally posted by vcwxvwligen
Your sexuality is a gift, so expressing it with pride is vain.
So Im guilty of being vain simply for acknowledging that Im straight?
Our society perfers to understand sex on a "good enough" basis, because of a greater appreciation for other, more civil endeavors.
Well you're obviously way off there as there are now sex therapists and couples counselling etc that deal with sex on a deep level. Its not as taboo as what it once was
When your sexuality fades, it's like you are confronting a fear of dying. You must adapt or die. Unfortunately, many people cope by finding another person through whom to vicariously maintain such a personal identity. At times, the other person is an unwilling participant. That is insincere, parasitic and, ultimately, abusive.
So you're saying that its wrong for people to want to go out and get some casual nooky or something along those lines?
And you're also saying that if that casual nooky is not available...they resort to rape? Thats ludicrous :dwn:
Sex is a huge part of life. Wether it be for enjoyment, to have kids or simply show your love for someone, and its ability to make you forget your troubles and relieve stress.
Im assuming you may be of a certain religious background which doesnt agree with sex for anything other than the desire to have children. If so....then maybe you should keep your ideas and beliefs to yourself
The reason why life, and particularly American culture, is so complicated is that it gives people something to do
American pop culture seems to be embracing the opposite extreme.
People who are ignorant and mistrust their own critical thinking skills rely on other people to make decisions on their behalf (ie to "protect" them).
My problem with the pro-gay agenda is that they fail to acknowledge the diversity of people who identify as homosexual.