posted on Jun, 22 2006 @ 11:56 AM
im sure many of you have come up with the same answers im getting ready to post. i just thought id share my opinion.
from a biblical view. Sex is sacred. its something you dont go around and do just because you feel like it. now yes, us as humans have the urge to
have sex every now and then, and some of us more often then others, but that doenst mean to go out and do it. sometimes I feel like kickin my brothers
tail when I get mad at him. doesnt mean I should that either. basically the point is, as someone mentioned before, just because it feels good doesnt
mean its good for you, doesnt mean its right either.
someone also mentioned earlier that animals have the urge to have sex as humans. good point. but again from the biblical view, we are not animals,
animals are animals and man is man. God designed man to be above the animals and for their relations with eachother to be sacred.
Sex is not a sin, it is a good thing that can be used in a bad way. its a great gift that everyone should one day get to enjoy. now how you use that
gift, thats a different story. as mentioned before, sex and love go hand in glove. and I agree. without love, sex is meaning less. yeah you can
reproduce and make many babies, but tell me this, would you really want to have kids with someone you dont love? im not saying anyone on this forum
does, im just trying to making a point.
sex inside of marriage is fine, completely perfect and Godly. sex is meant to bring the two closer together in the act of love.
now sex outside of marriage is wrong (biblically). there is no commitment, no bond, nothing to hold the two together.
and yes they may love eachother, maybe even more than the couple married. but that doesnt mean anything simply because, it wasnt worth waiting for.
sex also has a lot to with respect and honor as well.
just a few thoughts, please dont take anything personal.