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Xeros, sounds degrading to me, too. Don't blame feminism on degrading commercials, blame advertisers. Can you and friends contact advertisers and complain?
Originally posted by Xeros
I personally don't feel threatened by feminism, but feel as if it should take into account that by reversing the situation, it's a bit hypocritical.
If it's not a direct result of feminism then what the heck are they complaining about?
Originally posted by WyrdeOne
My girlfriend happened to be looking over my shoulder, and she asked "who's Rommel?" No lie. The kicker is, she's German.
So what do y'all make of that? Is it enough to provide equal employment when there's such a huge gap in the educational regimen? Do certain fields and subjects fall outside of feminine interest (for the most part) naturally, or does it take conscious manipulation to keep that norm in place? Should this be changed, eliminated, protected?
Originally posted by Benevolent Heretic
In my opinion, your wife's statement is indicative of an acceptance of male stereotyping in an attempt at comic relief. You know, if you can’t beat ‘em, join ‘em. Even making 'fun' of the woman's bodily function has always been a derogatory way for men to put down women.
By saying what she said, and buying into the stereotype, it makes her ‘more like a man’, and many women, including myself, are saddened when we see attitudes like that displayed, especially by women.
The truth is men are emotional, too. Look at this thread! Men backstab, too. Look at any corporation or workplace, look at any situation in life and you’ll see emotional people sticking it to other people.
The comment about menstruation is just sad. My husband says I’m sweeter on my period than most women are the rest of the month. The most I might do is tear up about something. But men have ups and downs, too. But when it’s a man, they just call it stress and admire him for handling it.
The most real situation I can imagine your wife might be experiencing is that a woman boss isn’t likely to let another woman get away with something simply because she’s a woman. A male boss might let his underlings get away with less-than-stellar work simply because he doesn’t hold her to the same high standards as a woman might. Or perhaps because he thinks she’s hot.
Bring to this thread all your common beliefs about feminism.
Non-feminists, how do you see feminism?
What is feminism to you?
Originally posted by SportyMB
Question for Parrhesia, BH or anyone else who wants to answer. You may have already answered this.....I only read the first two pages.
This is obviously an important issue and you're doing something about it by starting this thread, but what are the feminist doing about the whack-jobs out there giving you girls a bad name? How do you view them?
Being from the D.C. area I've been to Dupont cirlce a few times with some friends and have meet a few 'man-haters' and nut-jobs. Not that many, but definately enough to give someone the wrong impression of what a feminist is.
Originally posted by Xeros
Which I realise implies that I think the feminists want a reversal in social attitudes towards gender.
If feminism was to bring about equality why is it called feminism in the first place? and why does it not see (or feel compulsive) to act towards instances of sexism on the other end of the spectrum?
Originally posted by SportyMB
This is obviously an important issue and you're doing something about it by starting this thread, but what are the feminist doing about the whack-jobs out there giving you girls a bad name?
How do you view them?
Being from the D.C. area I've been to Dupont cirlce a few times with some friends and have meet a few 'man-haters' and nut-jobs. Not that many, but definately enough to give someone the wrong impression of what a feminist is.
Originally posted by Open_Minded Skeptic
One of the issues of equality is that it is no better to honor all women just because they are women than it is to dishonor them because they are women.
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The danger lies in the non-thinking generalization, in either direction.
Originally posted by Benevolent Heretic
As for the rest of your post, some of the things you say so obviously point out that you do not get what feminism is about. And I'm weary of trying to explain it to someone who (it seems) just wants to take 'the other side'.
Originally posted by smallpeeps
In the US, you'd never have a woman placed in real power.
the prohibition against rape will similarly need to be applied in a speech by that president.
Originally posted by pieman
the only feminists left are the nazi's
Originally posted by Open_Minded Skeptic
One of the issues of equality is that it is no better to honor all women just because they are women than it is to dishonor them because they are women. I know several women that I am not particularly fond of, and for whom I have little respect. Because they are jerks, not because they are women.
The danger lies in the non-thinking generalization, in either direction.
Originally posted by Boatphone
Are you living under a rock? Or, do you think we are so foolish as to believe that?
Dr. Condoleezza Rice Ph. D -- Secretary of State
Justice Ruth Joan Bader Ginsburg -- Supreme Court Justice
Hillary Rodham Clinton -- U.S Senator (and one of the most powerful people in America)
Are you insane. Rape is illegal in the United States of America!
Originally posted by parrhesia
Originally posted by WolfofWar
Sure, the specific Extremist Feminist movement that comes to mind if Radical Feminism, which actually considers its movement as "a war against men."
Is that right? May I ask which radical feminist, or which radical feminists said this, or where you are basing this on?
Originally posted by Mystery_Lady
It goes over board when women start saying things like we don't need men in our lives at all.
Thankfully my husband knows I still like to be treated with courtousness ... He will open the door for me, and help me when I need it. I actually thank him for it.
Originally posted by The Parallelogram
this is crazy!
this is absolutely unbelievable!
what the hell are you talking about?
it's obvious you have something against men, and whatever it is, it is statements like that that make gender equality an impossibility.
how is a man supposed to feel equal, or to respect women, if THAT is the kind of rhetoric we find ourselves faced with every day?
Originally posted by Mystery_Lady
What has this done to relationships between men and women? It has greatly deteroriated it pratically on all social levels. Men have no knowledge as to which women hold which views. They are getting so many mixed singles, that they are not sure how to act around women any longer. Some will bash them for being helpful and courtious, and the others will bash them if they are not helpful and courtioius. They are basically in a catch 22, no win situation.
After being bashed so many times, they entirely stop trying to be nice thinking almost every woman has something bad to say about them. Courtiousness and chilvery is totally out the door. If a door was closing on a woman with her hands full, he would rather see it bash her rather than have her bash him for trying to help. See a woman pulled off on the side of the road trying to change a tire, forget trying to help. She might nail him on the head with a crowbar just for offering help.