a reply to:
TDDAgain
I eat with chopsticks, because I want to know what it's like, to be empathetic and because it's an interesting way to eat food.
I have noticed that with chopsticks, you can't take as big a portion at any given time, unless the food is very sticky and you are very skilled,
perhaps. It's like chopsticks limits the amount you can shove in your food at any one time, and that's probably a healthy things.
With fork, let alone spoon, you can basically shove a tiny truckload of food at one time into your mouth, and it looks disgusting, it's not elegant at
all.
When you watch Japanese people eat with spoon, fork and other non-chopstick utensils, the first thing you notice is how they hold it wrong (in a very
sturdy way instead of 'proper' or more elegant way), and the second thing you notice is they shove ENORMOUS amount in their food every time, way more
than a 'western', 'cultured' or 'someone used to eating with fork or spoon' ever would.
I think this is because chopsticks naturally limit the portion you take and eat, so they don't need to consider that size, it's just naturally small,
and they probably expect spoon or fork to do that, too (sub-consciously), but as they're less limiting in that way, they end up eating way too big a
portion. It looks funny, like a kid learning to eat and not knowing what size portion to shove in mouth.
In any case, cultural appropriation makes no sense, but when you see people do it, it can be quite funny.
Japanese people generally seem to actually be honored by the idea that people born into non-asian BODIES ('cultural appropriation' makes BODY the most
important thing again, not the human being or soul) love their culture so much they want to adopt it into their lives as well, so a 'westerner wearing
a kimono' is NOT a shocking thing to a Japanese individual, but more a FUN thing.
It's like if I design something that someone else wants to use, I feel happy about it, right? Why wouldn't cultures want to exchange things between
themselves? Why wouldn't people of certain culture be happy that other people find their culture fascinating and worth indulging in?
Does anyone here have any idea just how MUCH business Japan makes off 'gaijins' that come to Japan and want to buy 'japanese things' to bring home,
and how much that kind of stuff they manufacture for this very reason? If 'cultural appropriation' was suddenly banned, they would lose enormous
amount of business! All those plastic mini-katanas and 'funny masks' and whatnot, would not be sold anymore.
This whole 'cultural appropriation' idea diminishes the value of cultures, and saying that only Japanese people should be allowed to wear kimonis is
CRAZY. Think about it; what about black or white people, who are born in Japan? Are they allowed to wear kimonos, but German-born, Japanese-looking
individual with Japan-born parents is not allowed to wear kimonos?
Where and how do you draw the line?
If this becomes a trend, we have to re-evaluate EVERYTHING, from food to inventions, technology, and so on. Airplanes, skateboards, trains, computers
- whatever country's people invented any kind of structure or system, other countries can't use it. Only Romans can use roads from now on..
(I know they didn't invent 'road' concept per se, but the whole thing is so insane, I wouldn't be surprised if someone demanded something as stupid as
this)
Shouldn't people AT LEAST ask the 'culture that is supposed to be offended', as to whether the people living in that culture are offended? I mean, if
it's OK with Japanese, why should I stop wearing kimonos just because some american thinks it's some kind of 'appropriation' (which it is not)?
What about people that moved to Japan and have lived there fore decades, are they allowed to wear kimonos that their friends gave to them as birthday
presents?
I mean, how about _FREEDOM_? Wouldn't that be more important than trying to limit and control what people can or can not wear, eat or use? What
happened to 'imitation is sincerest form of flattery'?
I don't know, this world is so far beyond help that I think all my explanations and examinations are useless, but I just wanted to put this post out
there.. maybe in two thousand years, some archaeologist will find this post to study old english and might find some use from it.